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1 S. k7 |- ]0 @0 {$ N 努力保持生活的平衡 & N* u% M: P2 F+ y' t* _/ k# A/ [
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. J: o @; V" X5 x6 i: A by Brain Dyson . W. X9 ^* a1 S2 @% v% c
, ?3 m% a+ S1 k% T, {! U, r Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 8 @) V0 w' {( l1 Y, g! j
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. 5 I& o6 Y( M( ?. H
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
2 _0 i; @* U' f" `/ y8 n$ xThey will never be the same. ! `4 ]9 D$ b) M
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? , ^, d' k4 m& S1 r, } Q
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. ) J: a( j& l2 I4 q( m) V% s
It is because we are different that each of us is special. - V* A u$ K) Y0 ~
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
- `" @) W5 j1 P. f }# `# m1 ? Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. , K* c3 J5 M+ T* M- i
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
! _6 x* V1 }( V/ @/ z- q, _By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
[' W) {4 k! l0 r Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. 4 l4 g: }. _. X. B2 `5 T. k6 o R7 @, c
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. / j1 \& u) c6 |6 ]% Y4 t
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. ) u3 f$ q% a/ d. E9 ~9 i
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
* c$ ?4 ^! N( L3 A" h5 VThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
/ p% r1 h$ Z7 w7 ^9 ]6 L( Y, |- k Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
3 w* e6 F# c/ U0 X0 {7 Sbut also where you are going.
: _4 r' V" U7 ` k' t Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
6 C5 J- f; s2 W- ]2 e# @5 [3 T Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 1 K+ j3 A! C/ h$ {1 z
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, * E8 D8 F; Y" ]
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. ; U; h# q6 L% @4 U* w/ e
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--布莱恩.戴森
) q2 q+ G" S$ E$ ^5 E2 P 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
6 H4 o9 n+ H5 r7 E$ L如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 3 N: H# G# g! o0 {# ~
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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: O, c3 [6 C9 @, G3 O k+ G你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ * t8 s. W; p4 u ~; Y. {& J/ ]8 V* n. V
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 6 |& ]8 ?' W. i2 o! @' p- C; O3 W9 O
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 : t! a" X+ {: a3 s1 J- C9 J" r; T) ?
1 j5 Y# z' C7 m1 K9 @不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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" x: B0 ~; K; i, E当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 ) m& f+ k& A. H" v" ~
) _1 d) r$ n0 `% ]不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 ( H) d0 X# H2 W9 C. L% Q
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 3 O# c/ ~$ ~; T; x
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
) E5 N3 M8 I* i# t失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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6 w. V: a0 v/ ^3 k& [8 H4 l7 a不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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& ~8 b6 ~+ Y4 u2 g9 ?8 X: Z不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 + u1 ~' ?! N, r# ~* e
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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( @. ^' y. ?- ^) d- X7 s不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 : G# K1 ~; J9 v- c
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
- @( a0 x6 X: z7 G: c b昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
2 m4 [8 s/ }# ]/ x那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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+ i% q& g' M; p. l" z8 m3 O+ o8 M （周倩茹编译）
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