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Strive For Balance in Life
- l6 e- j' [+ X* I2 W 努力保持生活的平衡 0 {% y6 O7 c$ H2 l% [, l& X# |
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 4 C+ T" U/ s2 G4 A
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. - b) B4 N. I) Z; V( G# Q$ n
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. ! _8 r- [$ T- H. X
They will never be the same. 4 Z$ G, K' _5 v2 {0 g8 `' | @
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
Z8 c- w$ P1 ?0 k Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
$ p! p5 W$ a: V3 GIt is because we are different that each of us is special. # R Q1 o- I7 y& d/ d$ O; K) p
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. % k/ o0 Q& H' F" i- ^
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
& f% a9 @% a+ r9 D- | Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
$ p! s5 z) \1 F+ R9 Z# O& ?; }By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
7 T; g6 Z0 t* f' g: A: S) X Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. / r% F* B0 m7 N% b
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. ) x B7 X7 [, U- Q4 t# W
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
8 r* S3 p+ ^( }0 c5 u9 j( l; s5 b Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. ) E \! j! g( \' O# k
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
% v8 w: L \; j& n- _ Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 1 E3 E P! s( v) U
but also where you are going. / y# C7 |5 \/ ~, A- H' C
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
e# x' R* m, X Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 3 h% K2 u# R- \% R- r1 h
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
$ D2 g$ {1 _. {: \# I+ s: Z% `# r9 E9 RTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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努力保持生活平衡
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想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
9 k4 ?3 z1 v* D& N+ l如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 # H9 h; }2 Q! F! y9 }
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 6 k; c! U' i2 W$ |
5 Z% r/ L$ ~7 q你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ 3 I( {5 N1 u0 G: y I* J
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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8 i% m6 ?- \9 k5 C- ], [不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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0 ^8 s5 V- B* \1 b& f不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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4 N# g0 t+ m8 ~ m当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 3 Q# q1 B$ Q% n3 z& Q5 P9 |
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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7 E* c! [3 g% O/ G4 s- e% }* X( [7 V不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
A) H8 \$ n6 M4 ]/ E7 z' e ~失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 7 w* N% \" v6 S+ l; [
/ s" [6 o( ~/ B; a6 X6 ~不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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* \. y' N" B1 o9 m* i" V不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 $ X% U# g F* x# M+ D+ z! f
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
4 C: `2 k0 X: o9 d: D+ O- }2 _昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： ) g' D& X% H* V# r
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