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Strive For Balance in Life $ Y8 t4 \ |4 b) E# u
努力保持生活的平衡 $ E' ^; j, C% K5 _1 J5 m
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by Brain Dyson 7 J6 W' v2 ?/ H" `+ p
) S9 K1 J& l9 Y2 [$ j Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. , ?0 F) e; q% z
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. $ q9 A" u6 A$ _6 D
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. % Y+ Q' @7 k- v+ e! Z3 C; p
They will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
. r, d" F1 }& ~, E Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. + O: ~3 S* R* W8 L- T
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
. t1 Y/ T* R% Z ~9 S Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
& r; ?% X/ ^# O% \1 p$ R1 T8 T) H Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
, Z# \& C* R( D- T( w) {. v Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. 6 F# p! M7 L$ `8 @' z' e6 F
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
. o2 q2 H9 g6 W$ S9 n9 W Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. 7 o( E2 E8 W; f5 _% N, ?
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. 5 j+ P( q, c, E, i
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. 7 c6 s* E5 P6 ^6 p$ h6 U9 {
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. $ s9 u6 F( D8 F4 ]' w
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. , D/ G7 G* d3 X2 B! _
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
4 Z4 x5 h+ H, V1 gbut also where you are going. 4 B% w- J# J! D6 T$ Y/ x9 o0 K
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
; ~4 |2 v0 k" M+ W Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. # B- i6 Z% d% I$ D" A8 r# m- r, [
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, ( q4 g. u7 K+ t) ^" f
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. " X- M( V2 C# P$ m6 O& w
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$ s6 m4 K4 Z- {8 c& m& I 努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森 6 n! z+ M: W! x% K, m1 W* N ~; B ^
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
7 H+ k% U2 U9 t# A如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 & _' R9 H8 ~- I: ~1 s
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 : ~( m; \0 v/ N" Q
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ ! G6 A8 ^% ~$ g. o, u
# w! `2 U% y) }9 Z( Q8 U, J( Q不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 & k7 `: q' ^) q) C
6 B/ h5 Y2 S* O3 [1 I不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 ' u% J# j+ y1 p2 e
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 " B/ s5 e3 S% P- u. [% t4 T
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； : K J% m! D, L/ K3 d u1 t
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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% Q7 Y& K% @9 |( p7 |不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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3 O5 u8 `. ]/ t不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 4 h+ \, L5 F, W- l. R, Z
5 T5 f1 a& P* I3 w1 g* m生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
/ v, m9 J3 N) v1 V5 C昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
/ |3 q& w+ h7 r那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 & E. ^% Y \6 g6 T8 w2 x
' h$ D. t$ V6 \4 \1 l* E3 | （周倩茹编译）
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