0 l: O; X+ H/ h) W+ E [ Strive For Balance in Life 6 z/ e7 e8 c! L w( c
努力保持生活的平衡 + [; p9 c8 i+ T" R, H+ Q3 z
2 _" ?9 M D7 B% H
) h( ]( o1 ?+ Z- u- M W3 w' O
, r9 ]3 R) E/ E) E 0 W, W' m* y2 S( p
by Brain Dyson : c" w3 ?; q, E1 V
4 g, b' F! n; R' z. h Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. ( B0 A! n3 @% J! x. i2 S2 p
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
* N1 i$ Y* @- g8 y. K* u5 ]But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. $ S1 N3 a% s5 T% y8 C) y
They will never be the same.
7 U5 U; G1 S7 O " x! Z& ^. n, R% J
You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
' w$ d/ f" x, w3 [, E! ] Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
G# v" ~) w/ R4 z$ ~# C% h, ^3 \' @3 j- FIt is because we are different that each of us is special.
* J* X* U5 S1 ~) B7 p4 z$ s Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. ' J( Z! ^1 p _: n
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
0 M) i! }0 ?+ F Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. % p4 ^! j) G4 n! k- O/ L
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. ! Y1 H( R9 ]6 u0 E* v4 R* [
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
9 d( f9 R! z x. y% _/ Z Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
7 ~* w/ w7 @3 @3 j Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
, \) l K! @: v8 H* { Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
. w, E! R x. X0 V/ Q7 \The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. * E8 P0 C2 C* }" ]' V0 u( Y
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, ; N9 S& p x) R3 T- S
but also where you are going.
# @2 P& I" j Q9 R; D" A' V Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. & ]. J" ^+ v& [8 @! g. t+ T
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
9 y! r- ~ \) }% Y" P$ q- l* j Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. ) C1 d/ U i# F& l/ m
/ s3 b7 W3 E* t& F
Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
. V7 F: }7 L8 G8 J9 q3 qTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. 0 N% T( P5 X+ v. N3 ]
2 ^( G$ p" z% ]- j( {) K0 i/ C
7 _3 B* |. `' f1 m4 Z$ d 努力保持生活平衡
- r, q, l7 d7 h) O" A: M& t% g 0 u# F; ~/ A }! H, ^
--布莱恩.戴森 6 n3 F: o n# v' l W8 M8 K4 o; A
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏,你把这五个球分别取名为:工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵,而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
+ A; c$ I2 {3 `$ X如果你让它落地了,它还会反弹起来。但是,家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的,如果你让它们掉到地上,它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损,留下印记、划痕,摔破甚至碎落一地。
- f2 ^8 E: ^ ^2 X: Z. i它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
' s( d+ e* p5 `6 Q& _/ `
7 s& Y& a2 ~3 ?3 u0 l你必须了解这个道理,并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢? * u6 G% B4 ]8 ?4 X6 C
: A4 k9 M# ]9 k4 K
不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同,所以每个人才很特别。
; k# q6 ?2 ?( d4 O: e) k. l
: E, n5 V$ X& H2 Z% u不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
) T, R9 E$ a& y" q6 G / f6 P( P3 s7 E- c" R! u3 A9 c
不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们,就像是你的生命一样,因为没有他们,生命将失去意义。 5 F. L- a- [6 m
# x7 N5 a4 {) j. w5 M7 a不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下,你就活出了人生的精彩。
3 H0 z' V. c5 a) m5 t. B& ? ; r0 ]6 S1 Q& R. O5 q6 F( W
当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃,万事皆有可能。 ' g; W* |* \) _- R9 X5 j
4 |* }% f9 V4 |% h不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
0 C3 V/ d0 ?/ B6 f) L5 s+ |( r& D. p P% G0 h+ l! H
不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 $ Q9 V/ _% X: B
5 Q* w- R8 U3 u, {不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱;
3 F$ Y1 n1 k7 S* [6 w- K失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放;维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
c8 k& Y7 l% B* c
G- T- B0 I6 W- J- ~不要匆忙地走过你的一生,以至于忘了自己到过哪里,要往哪里去。 $ ]3 D G( O1 e, j( _0 |
; C3 @0 l3 [+ l. q/ d
不要忘记,人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 $ V6 D) g1 p$ R" z s! V
4 Z, p' L- Z' ~, l! h- ?
不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担,是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 1 x/ C1 K K/ [/ u$ L( h( ^% `
' R* a0 n* r; [* r. [5 E) V0 x; t0 C" [6 b不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
9 ]+ h& `$ _" C% X$ e4 F. f 8 j/ u; v& p! a) V
生活不是一场赛跑,而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
% q8 k/ n- s4 |# `9 W, H1 E昨天已成历史,明天还未可知,而今天则是一份礼物: & {) U. t: y3 s; G# i, o9 j
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 % x- d/ ~* e5 Q+ M: b" A
- v) E0 h" Q7 }1 m8 f (周倩茹编译)
$ C* N' o* e5 u/ H7 t6 _ % S* ^" t' r6 H9 C
1 K8 R7 [0 w+ H: A. `" d
# D# g* u; V9 N7 A 2 d/ U5 w* Z1 @& j, g' Z
[em23]
D' U K3 S' j. c0 n/ r1 Q& ]
( A6 o6 v9 Z7 s) d6 K# [ ) p5 H( P( R* s; t. j: {2 }# }& T
' u* i% F, d' Z
7 F0 i, L5 n1 T$ @
! @ [ A8 `" H - c2 S) d' q2 N" z
: e+ Q1 f9 c) c* ]* t O5 ?
( ?8 o" P, T$ J5 D
|