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努力保持生活的平衡
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by Brain Dyson
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+ Y0 i* o3 o' Q Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. ) |6 T$ b, v1 n+ @$ K
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. / B% K8 l5 z1 t3 Y5 r! g
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. ( P, O/ i1 _. {: O% d3 J8 a2 y6 ^
They will never be the same.
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9 ~' @4 o4 R# ?4 u+ x You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
/ j: C; l) ?& C Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. ( T& z* P. X4 _3 e3 j% ?+ f( t' Y
It is because we are different that each of us is special. ! `8 O: H+ l/ P/ n) o2 R
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. 7 L, G7 R' |8 f+ P/ t5 s7 e
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
# [/ u0 r% L3 Y, j) R0 ^ N7 u7 N4 t Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. 9 C2 k0 _! Y. D/ _" e {4 s
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 4 Z" C9 g6 A* u) H
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
! \$ q6 u5 n- q Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. ( S" e- t, [ d) C: K
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. ( |" A- R7 L+ o: S2 u
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
( O6 C7 n* L' n3 eThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
0 G: Y5 Y, s* ^% X6 L) A, J2 P5 k Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, & r" {" h7 ]* j5 i" c
but also where you are going.
. D. m5 `$ {7 z2 s" c Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. & F& ^. U& z0 z5 x* _
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
5 \9 B* {1 d6 g5 ] T Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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+ |) {1 l: E7 A& y `, z" C Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
" H* [& O" {; [Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. & ]+ T- ]) ?0 y# J5 ~# h$ P
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努力保持生活平衡
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/ v3 q( y6 D* q: u3 g/ |8 U/ H9 ~/ N 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 ) E4 h8 v0 T1 l: m, [
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 - J* I& ^, n B% x5 q2 U
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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) f# d M/ o3 p1 k$ b你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ : z9 H, g* w& W2 x2 y& X$ B
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 6 E1 Q5 D6 w' J: j! F6 G
# |# z* Z2 W0 v: b: l) Z不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 / A# H# U3 i' o8 e u
. J5 H+ @0 @, e5 a' A不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 6 w- b/ |( \5 V* O9 |" n0 H
$ }3 C y/ o- ~* H0 g不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 ) l3 w, e* N+ d# P9 Y
* b3 {4 `: b k, R D6 q当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 , j* e' o* ?8 w0 v
' N. |/ q0 o( ^9 T( @% J+ i! l5 Y3 n* \不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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* I" M& r! t I+ K0 X3 }" U不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 ( ^% j$ @$ k' p" F" K+ [5 @
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
$ K: i7 D5 l' B7 I失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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# m( {) { ^9 M& i' @不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 ' M3 I2 |: |7 o3 E" j
& Q# T: r1 k$ f. B/ ^, r不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 / s, Q! N. b' E: D% b4 |
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
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$ }! K3 i6 d( N( J （周倩茹编译）
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