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Strive For Balance in Life
+ @$ E* O: R2 d1 {5 x1 g 努力保持生活的平衡
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by Brain Dyson 6 r7 l& d% G; g6 K- C' @
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
' V4 E0 D3 @0 {4 ~7 J4 x: tyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
a/ h; n$ H4 a& k3 }; _But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
% Y, s& M& T; x( v% _8 cThey will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 8 f: ]- H2 b2 S: H G. Q1 n
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. + R5 {8 f- S5 g+ @7 N( |
It is because we are different that each of us is special. 3 X: v X3 Y% }0 X/ E
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. ! |4 d' D! l# [
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
# O. j Y. V6 H( L9 z1 C Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. 9 T u* \( [5 E9 ^1 F+ D
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 6 [8 K" S" G, D! o F! |
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
3 L# T+ e/ k) ?* k Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. $ Z* e4 ]+ n! t+ ?1 I2 V5 K
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
% _& F. D& p+ S: P, d v) d9 t1 W# v) K Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 4 f! [# x4 P" _$ K, O5 y" U8 x8 c: G
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. 0 S. ~2 N7 A0 M, O" a0 }4 B* P
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
. k+ G9 y$ X* j0 z; p" abut also where you are going. ( Y7 h* ?) @+ v0 _
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. " @* W1 g; x- d3 I' v) e& w/ e
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
. ?9 P7 c, S7 k Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. - U5 q; g; P' _3 p" n: w
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
0 J8 }9 R* O9 `& o% u/ f' JTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. 6 |; ]& k9 ]( ]; e
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% y! x4 g7 i. |, R: h 努力保持生活平衡 2 K j0 ?( P# [
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--布莱恩.戴森 $ O/ }9 R6 |3 o' k) V4 Z- n, N6 v
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 4 }8 K/ E# P0 ~4 c, b y
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
) H0 J/ ]5 A0 l它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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# d! y+ i( I+ a/ ~2 X不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 + j* W; q' h: v5 h
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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; \7 z m, D' r. r1 y不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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! l; X' b6 t. X# [当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 : {( n* R2 B9 p# c$ ]
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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4 x7 H0 V T6 J不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
! {/ w; S/ z1 M- a8 E4 I失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 . h+ T; S% a, e
w; v, a/ E" G+ C# Q" `不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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4 ~+ @2 W2 t2 ?- @$ b+ n* X, i q不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 2 _" k6 ^$ d7 J$ z3 H* o# D% E0 X
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
5 A/ m0 ^/ \* x- e5 g$ [那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 ; K9 Q% Z, l: u( t a
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