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努力保持生活的平衡
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2 K9 J+ [0 U( K! h3 h by Brain Dyson
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$ e4 U, f+ `: I7 Q! H$ W$ a Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 2 f- m0 y2 K# C4 g& K* z# H
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. & G8 h* m+ f% b$ l
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
( i# w( q4 h# g8 `( Z0 }2 g, c% vThey will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? ; ]2 }3 F. [( q9 S7 x5 W! D M* G
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. 6 m% d8 Q; `4 Q. S. l7 N) b: _- F
It is because we are different that each of us is special. 3 r+ _/ m2 s4 t' H- c
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. ' Y# _# T5 [8 `
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
6 F. @: O/ R& \, v9 z6 v0 t9 S# P1 z Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
! L2 s: w$ E6 |! D3 y1 o3 k) |By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
+ Z& h7 F: G0 b Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. : m; V$ x1 ]4 u: x o6 c
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. . d4 u, t2 l* x
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. * X# F+ @/ A0 }5 Q( G" q7 c
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. - p3 e& s2 a; W! D* c$ o f$ i
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. ( x! V2 \& c$ D' G# t
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
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Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. $ D/ P$ y& @- d/ p4 d
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 6 p& T( q/ L/ T. G: b s
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 6 [5 s/ o$ Y/ q7 P k% I7 }. w
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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2 } F6 S1 E4 `& h1 X 努力保持生活平衡 ; ~# E) T0 [/ u2 O& w& m$ x p
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--布莱恩.戴森
! v) U- T3 S5 V7 J$ } 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 # @, q4 z- v8 V8 y( r e( L
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 0 I H% [; g6 d# m3 p- B3 S7 y% t
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 T2 K( k- X& y9 D0 O6 Z
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ + a5 o8 p' h1 @2 a5 s& b1 ~
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 3 D% k7 Y' E8 H
6 t- E V0 s8 m+ k不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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6 n5 C5 H' b- p- o5 E8 |% N; I不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 # K. t4 `. h4 o
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 o n6 f) l- u3 b# G. N9 ]
0 r _% g; O8 e- V不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 7 Q6 O( `0 V a& E( p# p" K* f5 P
+ D @) b9 L j2 {& r; x" x不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 4 }/ [; k8 \1 B- G) z( s
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
0 R4 S0 q' B0 U7 }4 {- d" T; E失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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- ^3 x( j! _# B$ b) a/ D2 L不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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1 Q2 J1 R# U+ V3 i9 c- V不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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, y' f" _+ v; |$ M# T8 F4 h生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 3 V. [: D2 D9 o5 x8 g# z9 ^
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： ) d; W1 u# s# d7 m- p- ^5 T. ?
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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