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& e& ?+ `; h; B# y# |# b6 Z by Brain Dyson
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
# n- c4 Z( i& {6 L' Eyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. * [' _) J- P( o8 l
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. 9 y: a) X P V& T1 _- L: ?
They will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
6 S+ p+ m8 p' ^% z+ w" j2 _ Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. / `* \9 B5 u9 T- }. `& {
It is because we are different that each of us is special. 0 F8 Z$ E6 f R4 a
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
( Y8 j T9 ]+ ?9 O Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. - ^, g0 R. H4 _6 h2 M
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. * u' i3 S7 a# W0 p8 W
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
( X, h1 M" Z$ r, ? Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
5 v" F; P8 e' z* \2 R9 T Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. 2 [# s; ~/ V- b5 l# {
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. ! ~# {6 s5 G6 h0 ?7 d& I& G! a
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. ( v/ }3 g! _$ q/ j: a& Z0 x. X
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
* E- v# j5 c+ H- _- j2 H3 B Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, & L& e% M0 g- @" k; o9 i
but also where you are going. & h; q% w, [% c. o5 O
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. ) _! ]8 j J) u/ o
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. ( `3 E' P" f; `! X# Q; S
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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% B& e, m, W: r4 A0 b Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 3 X* `& e& h9 a7 |+ L
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. ) ]5 g$ a$ |* S
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想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 6 L1 a5 W, K s% S0 z# \
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
" ?( r* s5 M# g& g4 W它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 " A+ m9 I; S4 s) ?
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5 G9 y0 ~8 m6 q$ S不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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4 K" v' e0 B+ S$ T/ {不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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: b, ]9 S$ d" Z3 U4 a' x: d3 {$ t不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 ( V+ Y) X" N% V3 S5 |- i8 o: n
1 q: [" H5 d$ F5 ^不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 7 j1 u: h- g4 I g
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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6 ]+ [3 U' p* W% h% j2 }5 |+ }3 z不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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8 ?% O8 S; v% z1 a6 H; {' ?, u; j不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 6 J9 U1 X8 K- {. m; z, m
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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\- m; b0 B- s7 N8 m不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 3 R! C5 v: @7 W- t) t( x. t' F; Q
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 * U0 I4 M. F1 d; ^
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 . ~) R) u; p3 @
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
% J9 e% z$ F$ D+ U! X' _5 q8 X昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 1 `+ y- U! n1 G& R2 g# E# F
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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