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Strive For Balance in Life 4 T/ D Z5 B# I' o0 G8 U9 S
努力保持生活的平衡 ' P& l6 z2 X7 v+ T* V7 {9 d
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+ B/ l3 c) W" ~/ @* e; ` Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. , d0 r8 @, u6 D1 i
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
6 d, r( n' M6 t5 d f/ m: O9 SBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. ) G& l% r% l& D9 _- S
They will never be the same.
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6 m$ D3 l2 A& ^9 h0 [ You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 3 Q5 G$ ~9 Z, p: T5 T; g6 W
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
# K; C' D! ~. [It is because we are different that each of us is special.
/ X* j5 t" X: G, q k Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
/ {1 ~7 H& _+ H4 O: W, ? h& ~ Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
+ u. z* w0 i d Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. 9 w/ K* S6 J. r; o
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
& O1 u" d& p, D& q Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. " s/ D& ?' W C' E* n) U
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
4 }' I& m$ C9 A Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
! E6 W+ J; C% ?1 a. U$ y Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
$ d: k9 u) c. iThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
: |* K* O+ O1 y0 i$ n Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
- I# }# i* d( B9 r4 Z# ~but also where you are going. % x8 H6 T" w/ \! @. F( B* o2 @
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. / ~/ X) i C% D
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. $ Z! `$ q' y: [/ R
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. , o# }' _7 d( P0 Z3 y* @
" P) D8 F. ~3 y+ q4 c/ a Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 6 x! ^: J6 J& W! o4 B
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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% S2 h# i- D3 Y* n/ T8 q, L' W --布莱恩.戴森
/ d8 N1 M9 [( B' o' u1 e! | 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
. k3 d3 ~4 V8 r' b- {! G* V如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
+ N7 z: U# Z$ R* D" t5 ~& h! X它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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( E: N5 Y, @% ~ b你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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; a) u1 y7 k" e P不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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7 t; U( n5 y5 c6 d9 t7 k8 O不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 ! j5 H6 q, C$ S% Q+ }; ?9 D) J
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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/ s0 F+ x' v) i$ A5 \1 G# _& l. }! h不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 ) n/ I# R8 m+ i; p1 _3 q- ?& T
% s5 |% j8 M' a* m" A0 b, X5 J: {当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 6 N3 q0 Z( D/ R
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； ; e. |& U9 @' Z( g; y3 g
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 ' a2 Z* V4 C4 c" a; U, k
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 % Z4 c1 s+ d; s9 O6 L. d
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 2 V6 y1 H2 j) w7 `. Z: c
$ z! u; K5 D1 ~3 h8 R* t不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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3 ^8 C. ~. ~3 F- P+ L- k( T不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 ( v( A1 O' f9 T- k
/ J( ^# S |! C! P$ [ N生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 4 y8 O+ J* P! G5 @
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
: n$ ^) u, G3 v5 S* k那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 8 h: v/ c' _; P7 X* A
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