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- i1 k+ o- j. l. H6 `# B Strive For Balance in Life * R) S* y9 n1 E
努力保持生活的平衡
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! h8 B! K; w2 O- G. u by Brain Dyson 3 {( N! X, K" _$ A% w: J9 f% _
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
! L9 V2 D( z d* O+ y/ t0 fyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. ! f! R% c5 R1 N4 t% t
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
H( U3 J' s% x+ l: mThey will never be the same.
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1 Y$ ~) U9 j0 m You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
8 {6 X: B2 f1 D' R" j8 N/ J Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. ) M6 K2 H6 ~& t
It is because we are different that each of us is special. 7 M0 R6 F3 e3 @) H4 ^
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
9 v p I: g6 V4 N- N2 z Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
6 L1 \5 V- d* ` Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
0 O: d# u9 a: Z7 S% h5 |By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. . Z3 J9 U0 r/ R4 r; ]
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. - A8 ^* r3 v: a0 h$ v% ], b
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. 5 ^' U' F9 a$ H5 `% z& g* E" B$ S
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. . s! d3 k3 T; u- v( ^* u6 U( x
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. ! L, u/ l* o/ s/ ]5 ~2 I
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
9 z7 n9 L2 n% J Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
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% v2 Z" F* i- k- I. w5 e& } Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. 3 [* o, {' b* A, R3 V+ P
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
9 Q# {2 u2 M- s" x1 U Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. 2 R. q3 i1 b z2 v |/ T/ f
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, c3 R" l$ h ^6 |2 |6 {
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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; @* t! F& V) I& T! K2 A 努力保持生活平衡 4 \3 ?4 e4 z' w% l# S- |6 E- I" x
) j8 z7 T" K5 |; @' U" O --布莱恩.戴森 ! E. F- G# U6 P, {0 m- ^8 I: p1 I
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 ; A% B: h& v! @1 C. ]; i
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 " Q5 z5 ?' J) p5 g6 }
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 : N2 n2 O3 h1 k" q1 M
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ 4 u9 X( F5 F' l5 s
6 J) K5 P6 D! q, U; z) D不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 / O+ l t% f; O) O7 V
1 X; p. s& g, V/ x" f不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 3 d8 n0 Q& x* }1 Y4 s
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 ( R5 C Y" u/ c9 L
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 7 `' W2 }6 q, e4 O( Y
0 l2 D' T6 x; `7 K' f0 c8 D当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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' ?4 G& \4 T8 n& W: X不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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0 f/ }- y A4 n1 Z( Q3 d不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； " l* T- S# j$ p Z) k1 n
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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" m* S/ m9 z1 e0 a2 p! D$ x不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 $ j; d( T# \2 N# p8 F
& p% @6 f0 w1 b3 ^8 b2 R不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 5 m5 Z0 t3 F; p6 ~: s
( m7 C, d) k! q0 {" S0 K不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 * S5 K; h- M; b0 p* u7 y! T* b$ l
# F/ M3 r& ~( ^6 O% u不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 0 _, [1 m! X2 y' D9 H
2 [0 _- \7 `$ V. I3 C! c! Y- I* q生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
' E3 Y/ R2 x, I6 Y* ?昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： * U% Q! A# v* w! M7 m. Y8 B: f. o% `
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 - u2 ?$ r. D) A5 o2 l
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