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+ K6 p2 x* S5 ^! E by Brain Dyson
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
' V- T* Q+ a; [3 Y8 ~+ Tyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. . }3 A: R; i$ t3 F/ v/ t$ T
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
% Y( o/ p) p `. g" P) q$ c6 C; k. D$ pThey will never be the same. ( p0 n$ }/ \4 w. x
* A% c) h! }2 k: q! ]! v3 n( N& |& g You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? . {0 k* [9 n* u2 |4 P" P. ^
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
7 J8 |! u. k" t2 Z7 z5 rIt is because we are different that each of us is special. & v3 G& R) a9 T* D7 a$ t
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. ) Y. L$ p; G$ A* a7 g
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
$ g4 { W+ u4 g- F% P6 Q Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
: f, T: y; E1 w7 V8 k v7 cBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. # b$ e3 a" d5 n
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
" P" C* J, M9 C+ |) c! A Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. 0 S! ~) n+ C& a" N( v! v' m
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
. n) z( P, \- h+ K+ m8 L" l Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 6 h8 C$ j7 N2 T3 h* N
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. . h$ e, x D _
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 9 L g. J, I/ g
but also where you are going. 6 Y6 N4 m3 x. H K$ ]
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
. u; P* X; o& B7 i Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. $ |( i. g$ i3 v9 O1 d5 C7 q
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, + G) e* g2 J' T
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. 6 Y3 }1 `$ @' u9 n% D1 _% Z- b1 Y" K
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--布莱恩.戴森
; `; C7 Y3 R5 F9 A0 a 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
; _( E6 v$ F& h2 P0 {# p: |如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
8 I# N4 L$ L ~. L它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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; n: ]- C& U6 ~* Y8 J% h, p2 T你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ ) `- E) [4 ?$ I e& u+ B2 ^, X) w+ v4 K
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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* u2 m- O; T0 j4 e" e7 ~不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 , v1 l% V$ n4 o7 d3 P
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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6 v, s5 k) G! k8 ?不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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7 b: m- _6 u' \+ Y" A8 w不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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! O! R# U$ X ?* a3 y+ d7 J3 c3 g不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
/ G- c7 }+ ]2 a9 B- M& h& m9 I/ n失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 , y. Q+ Q( o) \+ `: c- k
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 . j+ r6 X Y' H- _" U- L( t$ U
( L2 w. x2 ^6 z; @$ f' o7 {7 [不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 # k$ {/ g* M0 {! t
; ], v- w6 @ h' X) \1 A6 ~& d生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 & ^+ _' L( j4 n( \$ `% N$ ~8 p0 r
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 1 I. R/ g3 v; B/ D# J
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 % Z( g" _% O2 h; @8 t8 w V
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