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6 Z6 p+ e4 `9 W: K$ \3 ` Strive For Balance in Life 7 `! S1 v5 f8 g5 X( z; Q
努力保持生活的平衡
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by Brain Dyson 8 {! o8 b6 C2 `3 H( P' H+ `
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. ! K& X& u7 Y) h% X
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
# Y, ^4 R6 _+ ^9 |But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. , S% X& t9 v3 ^. {! L# f2 s
They will never be the same. * @ ]+ Q2 |3 A. d, b0 Z
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? , K/ z4 ]0 g6 J) @8 P
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
S E2 S4 V8 m- j2 ?# h" cIt is because we are different that each of us is special. - A+ q, g0 `- }6 z7 L. c/ f5 D/ r
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. & @8 r: W3 v5 z2 \' n* d8 F
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. 7 x! j; ]$ f2 ~$ f+ c
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. 4 n' s) l; d, ?- O- S$ S
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. . x6 f2 }, F1 K$ u- w
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
9 I* a/ k8 u- U- ]0 [) N Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. 5 }* A" s0 Q$ ^: O
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
: E- ~% m# j% @; r1 p0 V. l Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. # C1 v# V" ]: C) e; m$ |
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
4 h- y% [" B( N) Q& p, a Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, % H& y* e' l; `4 y3 ], P
but also where you are going.
1 g' y4 L Q% C5 _7 E Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
$ s7 R3 O0 ]0 M) x Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
0 n- o6 D% E: i. K. n |) ^% | Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 0 K( Z- u* N7 }' [- s# V
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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7 z% X& T7 m2 {+ o8 S: w# T --布莱恩.戴森
# q: H# u. G% ^ 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 ' `3 ?$ p- n3 o7 I0 X: [
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 6 g3 c+ q/ Z5 L- L4 }
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 , ^# V! P8 Q; r. |+ K# S* S
/ Z2 e! g4 ^/ V! W+ F你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 2 H6 d2 w* Y: V. q. ^. F
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 : y( X6 c0 N; a3 N+ S# \
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 3 W: i$ T1 d5 ?
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 $ e' x5 c1 r. ?% p) m1 ?
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 7 v9 ?1 `: l# U) m1 [
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 ) B5 a1 z) l8 ]
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； % r: \* d) ?. G! C- S
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 % v) W7 i5 z: c, p ~ m- X2 h
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 ) \; z2 e; f0 `; f/ n/ n) P$ q
+ I5 a# Q- a0 ]* `. ?% H$ e不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 : Q, F: P8 B6 R
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 0 i! }* E: i8 @1 ^" J: J
& |( _) c$ E$ `; [( k' f不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
: p- G W7 q! k* r c- w. D' q) P! B9 V/ e昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
/ b2 {+ s& ~3 ~那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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& T! T# G& W9 p （周倩茹编译） . _* {0 i/ M/ U9 G6 h x
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