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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
! a; E$ m. J! `you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. . X1 m3 F. I7 I: N
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. ; z; g" L2 Q& {& W
They will never be the same. ) a/ h' a2 a5 D) x5 C, b
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 6 w, ^3 Y1 V, y7 Q) c8 q6 p0 _1 W
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
1 V2 R5 ~" x5 l$ ? DIt is because we are different that each of us is special. , P2 c" O$ Y- I- t4 T6 E2 ?7 v' `
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
$ g3 b+ S' N! s Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
5 I; D2 [5 V! L! j/ i ^ Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
# B) i3 F4 f4 x$ _By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 4 t# N( q9 I' i0 g. _% i
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. $ C. b, }$ W8 f
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
" V. `. M7 v# ^' H! q! [; D9 ^5 l Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
% q- g' m) O4 S Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
& Y, N8 a2 \4 Q- O& ]' h/ bThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
6 a/ R2 {* k$ a, U Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, $ c1 u2 r1 R* `. [/ @6 i
but also where you are going.
+ z9 W+ K7 H* s: `2 s) b# z5 } Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. , X' s! i2 }# Q% K$ F0 [
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. $ s: T3 v5 }4 q% b% [! A3 S$ j6 k4 T
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. , K1 z1 D* W4 A [* J% F# Q. T
$ _! ~* u( m/ j Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
- t; m0 {: C7 ?Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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0 s7 S* p( H% U' ^9 x8 y& K --布莱恩.戴森 8 B( V @. m" i. M- i
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
# y a' ]9 _7 h. ^; U' T2 w如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 , x3 b g) M2 L+ d# v. ]
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 ( q( z8 w3 o5 W# K8 t3 B6 X. G
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ : x% ^- n+ J* A1 s9 ?/ f3 O& |
`- Z( ? [" l& O& {& ~不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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) \, ~; B- \% j" w. N# R4 {" k不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 : I2 b1 e' K8 b1 O; P
$ v( R8 i4 X& t/ @: K$ I不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 ( p! m5 V& G, o ]
; v. l6 t( L9 d4 h w不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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; f+ I3 T4 y& I当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 1 }. A9 ~& Z7 z! I/ r7 f9 c) t
5 a3 ~+ o- W4 f! y; I1 g7 D9 z不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 & {) V+ \3 g. k4 m; ]4 Q0 r4 O+ A
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
' W$ v- L& b, l! k) k$ \失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 $ @7 u# [5 P" r. b# {" m5 }
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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0 K, n& ~+ z+ Y' p* f, l, O不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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, ?+ I& a6 G) _生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
: m2 O E; g F0 v8 a昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
2 b( m q( m; v( a7 c2 _那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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3 ]/ I7 i) N/ M g0 X% K （周倩茹编译） 6 q3 ^+ ]8 ?. {; M4 j! H: W' e
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