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Strive For Balance in Life
1 Z0 J$ m( w! R" e1 [ 努力保持生活的平衡
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by Brain Dyson 7 _* |$ G# R) {+ r" }
6 |/ p$ P8 k B7 ^5 i; m$ o9 | Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
: Z. m, z1 Y, L Kyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
% A" s0 N) S$ y, }% t8 e/ eBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
" G/ z6 J0 k% gThey will never be the same. ! k S4 @% R# k8 x) p/ Y
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? / r8 q9 O+ s- b5 e% ~
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
) ]% C4 v( n% C( jIt is because we are different that each of us is special. 5 ?* r, ]" i c! n/ P1 }
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. ) ^. l8 j1 F, S9 `4 [
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
5 @8 P$ ~% A5 D Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
1 t* q, }! g6 N( gBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 7 \: l2 ]% _8 s- D# F& W
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
! v( ] g% r2 }2 A; E) j Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
) }% g9 _& y: y' E1 q Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. 5 v: {- S R$ [% a. l
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. + g: R& c6 N- S, O. R5 k' v
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
0 p9 j# }* y, F$ X7 W: K Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, & i; z4 y! ]0 f9 R5 W3 m
but also where you are going.
7 D" j. l) g/ w# L6 X) ~3 C( i Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. 4 R0 ?! x1 m+ k1 [
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. : |1 \+ B# N- \. X
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. - g6 t/ _ b5 p. J
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, F: J, i& n& k0 h0 q
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. 1 S" m/ ^6 a" F% T
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: [3 V% l' `! M. N# V 努力保持生活平衡 , ]6 Y8 _3 p u& X
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--布莱恩.戴森
1 h& T' A: C5 d2 u+ b: ?2 i 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 ! j& f" x( i; [
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
' J/ r& d/ M7 `" T4 a6 O. r它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 / f* h% j, g( F6 P1 F% C
- H* P! @- ~ E% ~3 Y你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ ( h: A7 e4 t/ _7 V$ b
2 u5 }# A) i z' }0 s不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 4 ^; d6 ^5 E; g3 c
) o0 E- _( `6 Z1 @% ?" f! i* k不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 - f: m; M1 p3 x& d, I
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 8 w$ [) \9 j' y% D7 F3 ?
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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8 J6 S9 }$ V. x( N) F( x, I不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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6 _, W$ ]2 t4 r6 L& T: E% U不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； % O$ z$ y6 V( z f, _8 j' A. D
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 9 A; E# D8 v$ q& G- r
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 % L \- r# T! t5 {! C
! m6 Z P, J2 B不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
. u8 v* Q. Z6 I" L昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： , n! ?2 Y Z4 M! p
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 0 t2 g% Q% I$ B5 |7 t0 l
2 I0 L2 A3 g. l3 e3 X# U( m& n& E （周倩茹编译） + P( h1 U S; U/ b. N8 | }: ^2 L, g
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