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1 g! Q7 C4 `& F* i1 O) W8 Q Strive For Balance in Life
4 }7 t7 C. ~, t% T, G: { 努力保持生活的平衡
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* B2 l) ?8 K( D by Brain Dyson 6 ~* H/ y& S& X i
% ]4 `3 c$ S0 s7 F# ], F Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. / a" P; c6 K" h! M+ D6 ^/ ^( Z2 H Q
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. * I2 W/ ~$ T5 `2 S7 ]
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. 0 ]) A$ k9 X$ m6 T" n; Y; y
They will never be the same.
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8 U/ n# x- g+ W5 w You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 8 J4 G7 f2 l- H
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
+ ?, R6 ]! A* I6 n) JIt is because we are different that each of us is special.
- _" }5 M, T, N; b" G Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
/ C. S; _) I* X, `+ y9 t, R Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
& a7 t3 [$ T9 R: | Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
4 _# t' r7 m+ Z/ UBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
. O* U5 f1 G: ? Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
1 l2 r1 n( \4 P) w9 O Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. ) P' y# X* [; ?6 s6 N8 h
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. + e9 J8 `% l {6 A+ z8 f! c1 n
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. / v6 z3 Z; F3 ~+ {0 G+ b
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
+ f8 V* q7 k8 v% t; Y Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
$ Y, ]& n9 Z! N; ubut also where you are going. 4 I a( Y1 E. N$ o0 R
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
* N# o0 a: A0 S) u1 L$ z! n. w. R Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
2 H9 \9 n8 Y. a) o" |3 \$ d Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. 8 N( I$ u2 K, m8 o& B! i D
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 1 c8 J! l3 W3 a( [ `. z* |
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. " }- l2 @/ X6 a9 O
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--布莱恩.戴森
; m3 M3 y0 i N$ z5 `8 o. S, C2 v 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 ! {# R/ ]5 i9 o; V7 I% [' L
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
1 r# q' G7 j8 u2 x, [. c它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 ( T/ }' m! v% B& b
4 p+ D u9 r; Z, b: U你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ ( e. J4 v' L @/ e* r# L
; n# f3 A! ^1 F9 ?% e; R0 M不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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# i$ v4 h0 {* H; @3 j! L2 r不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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: W8 b2 ]6 s- U% M- U7 i不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 # v9 a1 G8 h( W& Y3 W
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 " L$ ]4 r" A* O [' Z7 I. d% |+ `
- I: V4 F6 ~3 s+ B不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 4 G7 e4 u( I/ B
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
0 }7 J m F D a! I$ I失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 ! n8 g$ G0 Z3 i! ]
! P: ^3 Q5 I8 F. V- N+ y* b不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 : N( W4 q+ b0 l' @5 C$ [/ p1 i
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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( j# ^3 n# R8 r1 z; k' b不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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) `- ? C' Z/ s不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 ; {' k3 j8 ^) F1 n0 I# k% ]
8 C( u$ p3 T" a3 A+ }4 A& r# R生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
: f1 {2 K* ~2 n2 ?+ E0 ~昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
6 q8 A6 F$ X: X$ U, l$ [; |那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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