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Strive For Balance in Life ; Y# \6 Y5 @! t) J
努力保持生活的平衡 - ~1 j- X. [; ~1 }2 u, B/ O2 q
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by Brain Dyson E6 W9 b+ l. t/ j) [
3 o9 r, x$ [2 k% Y1 | Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. % p/ a8 `6 [- c" a# M
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. a; z* k+ _: h' D! h# {. i
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. ) |7 S5 `' P" U6 G+ i8 d, v
They will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? , z1 Z1 G! }" r' N& j& n3 r
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. 4 N' Z' L2 h* c$ _% X
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
. ~/ d- ?6 l4 o; R6 o Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. ' j5 s& ^8 p" i) \
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. # j' ]( H4 _! v% x! \! b, `
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
6 q% [6 h) a* s9 i$ GBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. ( C7 h8 I( [" I2 ^' g# i$ s
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
; w2 u U; U+ h' n; [ Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
$ H# ^2 N6 _) h0 \* d, t/ ^1 s" A Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
' x M' S9 d& q% ^& Z5 ~ Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
( X T% r+ J2 h. _6 ]7 yThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
( J2 E! k1 @2 ? Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
: u& e2 T& A! J" T) L* Q. Z% fbut also where you are going.
4 f5 ]3 B' X$ d7 E Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
; D6 U* `1 E' D0 r& R _6 N& p Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. + D6 z3 R' {; M' K, Q/ z1 g
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
}& U! l% r- V8 l% t- D' x+ BTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. " d+ [- C q7 p; @
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$ b7 p7 c3 q6 {7 L: c4 E4 M 努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森
" [# k8 B Q* G. f2 g( K 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
: _: F, r8 X1 b: _ I如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
+ m* ]! u2 f8 D) s& H它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 - E# _9 P+ Y# T; \
% x9 u1 y9 L& B; h. [你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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1 [ y( A8 L- G _/ H不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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2 E/ n: ^- [8 V2 s. Y不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 2 f' x1 d7 I) R6 x* x
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 - U8 h z/ X) q+ j& B1 l) T Y: B
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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+ w# P4 w1 H8 I: d5 ` ~; x! h当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 6 d% w1 s( C% ~ M$ L3 N! @# a
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 # Y8 z* L9 y- a/ o
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 5 k( W4 }% ^3 P( R% c* Q
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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" ` u. C* k8 I O1 b+ e9 B不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 7 ]+ m+ n& c' O+ n2 N, n8 |# T( B+ V
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 + R# `9 g* X0 n6 k( ~+ U: V
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 3 h3 |2 @: ^. V( ~
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
9 D! c8 U7 U2 J, {6 X# h' _4 M那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 ( [6 ]/ [' h! M1 p
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