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. | }* h8 ?: W9 J Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
* }% X* \$ I3 n$ q( Xyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
7 B! a6 E; R2 z1 T" H# `$ NBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. * C0 _2 c8 k8 z/ P
They will never be the same.
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$ y. r$ S) J+ P0 s d0 h You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 3 l! M1 T( @, |, C# U) w! o
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
* e: v& v# ]: Q% wIt is because we are different that each of us is special.
! e0 h2 o/ e, i Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
5 E: N- G5 M# I3 X4 T Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. ! g4 q z- [- N0 ]! Y
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. $ _# J& e/ c3 c% u
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. % s; W. t6 l4 y+ T
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. 7 ^5 J: E6 o5 C5 F) k: F
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. $ @- c- J* F5 @0 c- A
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
& ]+ [$ u& m% p8 M4 {/ L Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 9 X9 J: Y- h# B+ \
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. ! ^1 g3 W! I. }; b' M2 N
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 6 N' m; h1 w$ c; c3 T3 T
but also where you are going. ( U ~/ X. W4 n
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
- M3 m m6 t9 e2 Y; k4 A3 C3 l' c6 C o Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 9 ~& ^: E- W9 m
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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O m: u: G4 N7 Y Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
) r, j# h2 n3 ^' KTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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4 J$ r: s! C3 L 努力保持生活平衡 : v7 o+ {( F, m) T
m$ M2 Q5 _+ A1 `" R6 C/ A9 x --布莱恩.戴森 ; r# w! X& Q( F' ]( m
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
* t3 |1 r" l" r+ |0 C) y. q如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 7 z- P+ j4 G4 X+ ~! Z5 r5 R
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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$ L) P9 _ A: m5 D不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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# Z; R. @+ _( |- e$ F不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 # S. V+ Z! z. z' d* ~- b$ f9 e
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 - H( w8 T9 y V0 j v+ G; A
i! ~' ^8 I) z. H不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 2 U) D+ j6 D3 G- L! N, v2 z9 h
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 * ^2 @! Q' o5 E$ w/ Z
0 ~: ~% W- u; `3 N不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 4 r, O( k2 @4 g+ m; R+ h
8 ~& E6 Y+ a! l& a h" f不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； + B' D7 R$ {' @ _; X1 _% J
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 : A2 w6 L! O: v2 t i2 Q9 \) [. i5 T$ h5 H
$ @6 m/ {5 n4 l: j不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 0 e j0 k( s: P* X: k+ x
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 7 R- j# x2 i7 ^" z
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 6 _! v7 H. J$ b9 w
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