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Strive For Balance in Life ( ], l5 ]6 ~; C' _9 s4 p
努力保持生活的平衡
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6 J( }! j+ S$ r" _ Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. Z1 x' P1 J# A, b7 k
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. ' o- B, K& B/ G; m/ d# \
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
9 N, ? i- z" t! I+ Z& s8 C, ^They will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
, S! f- ?- \) P' x Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
0 j4 v; y% g" X/ r( HIt is because we are different that each of us is special. # Z0 z" M; _, i
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
- ]4 p" Q/ c8 B/ C; ?6 { Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. ) \% K& N, e* p( |+ a3 ?$ c+ I
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. q, f+ @. ?- ~- ?& W& ?
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. ( |* B6 x* c4 O+ d( q8 p
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
& `/ i8 Z4 `9 { Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. , ~* T' |; a- K. t( `7 s
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
! E) s& t8 Z$ v: t1 G6 z Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
1 U/ m' x' O( U) ^2 t, v( P8 tThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. & U" o" m9 f" U! D
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, ) l8 Y2 g, J) S( M) @+ V" p
but also where you are going.
3 r+ p0 M1 A# m# E4 e1 ` Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. 4 j" ?1 P1 y i6 u% z# X) y+ A
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. % G; q' ? o% {; G) f' _
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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9 G$ c: V5 r( H$ g. C/ [7 d Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
2 K; j Z. T3 J. H) h, GTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. 7 g) T: Q1 N( i8 ?0 ^" N1 a8 g
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% s; L0 Q$ }# I6 e) x0 e 努力保持生活平衡
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6 L) n& {, _% x( A7 E; k, s i8 m --布莱恩.戴森 3 n- T& o. t6 I7 S: G! d! U9 W0 y
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 % x4 |. r0 c$ ]
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 7 U5 x8 }$ J3 x" ]2 N* I+ x
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 ) L! }9 Q" B; T
5 W- J+ \5 W5 R( p. L& R% c你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ % v; V( t+ n& F& @
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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7 c: x8 `* M# ^2 i6 B6 H/ ]: c不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 ; @5 |, G7 Z7 s% ]
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 9 ^, u7 d& I- F: J7 B* L
& \0 j4 ]/ H5 G! P9 R# X% I8 k9 `+ z不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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5 x+ P0 O8 E; m! ~& e' K9 t3 T. ?不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 1 e! A5 I b4 y
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 " P7 B- r# l# U" s) y2 I
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 3 l7 H; i7 r$ q2 ]& `
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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0 {) z; F6 k7 E/ u, S- A g不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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^ c% v( D: N8 q' A' U% h6 `0 z/ b生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 * b& G$ ~: G; X1 M& I" K
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
5 a5 |. ?! }" N2 r0 P9 ^那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 ; R, e2 v& t7 J. ?
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