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# L' u* M, G2 F- u by Brain Dyson
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+ d. a: j, U0 z! R z Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. # y. ?$ {* D! R
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. # b( x+ f @4 [3 A `/ E
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
' t- F, S/ |9 c* N$ OThey will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 0 N( L: w5 t- w- t) B& x
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. 6 V, v6 K7 Z) W& |2 x* x
It is because we are different that each of us is special. ' R3 v8 v) c, g- `- O
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
5 f4 J/ H9 L( u* r Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. % ^* ]1 Y. A+ C. X, b n
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. 7 T: i& Y8 y4 k2 L) r0 ?
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. * ^: d9 G7 a1 N- t; a0 X2 B! o
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
# W+ z7 i- f' d+ d2 A" C9 z Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. & x( |* B. G" c$ x N
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. * L" o5 [7 \0 h4 |
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
! @9 y; }6 h2 n) Y* XThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
; `" N( X ~1 W" z5 g9 R Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
) B! V: S5 }8 P& tbut also where you are going. 9 h% k1 [1 h3 V8 z1 z- Y- m9 i
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
9 V+ I/ `; W; i) W Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
! b! H8 D/ F# D; Z$ |$ e Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. 6 H+ l7 S1 A6 M1 F6 r
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, * ~3 w0 }( ?' b% k9 p' k$ [
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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9 L0 ?# r" w( | 努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森 * K: W6 A/ x% m3 G. S( P9 K, Z2 X
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
% ?: J7 r7 e U如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 2 N1 \* Q8 N7 i8 n
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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2 Q9 @+ v' d& U) N1 I- U9 m不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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/ [4 V& q* V! [) ^' N4 l& r0 }2 S不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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2 I6 r: R6 y, w+ W" `! R p2 C不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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6 s% n7 V2 `1 c* r T/ j; n* o2 h不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 : W' z+ h Q4 m: s% h4 C1 O
" x1 G6 b0 q( R9 t! Q不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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1 U: S- Q$ [8 H8 ~ [' \) R不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 5 g2 b2 P5 ?2 n* s6 K, t/ ?& \
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 % s7 V; P* o% a6 {3 N
. Y6 j9 l7 j" |& v. x5 l8 r不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 D! k/ X: Z4 e* y8 S- ?$ \
$ I" R9 E+ b% ^; _不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 0 q5 J. \+ T9 u0 s
( b# Z. o* R/ }+ t: E% J7 \不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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8 K4 O( P- {% |" ^+ V0 d* F+ Z4 E生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 # `1 P% f) B( O
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： ! U! t& u; G! i9 l9 e
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 2 V' |! [9 ^2 J/ f) N W! y6 I# [0 Y
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