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Strive For Balance in Life - S2 ^! p J$ y7 u; [" r/ W9 `( i
努力保持生活的平衡 , C$ W, Q, t! m! g5 t0 n' E7 k* i
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) A( G/ f9 W" b9 V* [( O1 N Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. ! ?6 M+ k0 N+ D4 V0 c+ k( o
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. ) A& g8 x4 l7 G! ~; o
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. ! N& N9 O, q, r8 A4 \7 T
They will never be the same. 4 ^- s- I+ T* S; u
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
% D. V* k# U5 O Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. $ N O2 h9 a9 }
It is because we are different that each of us is special. % }0 Z0 w6 L) L) ~1 q
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. & l, ^& J% h0 x7 U* F7 ?3 F
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
0 S! \* |9 y! I& K Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
; ^1 k4 y$ g1 `By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
9 o9 E2 v! Q! t/ W Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
- ~1 P! f+ M6 C3 e Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. 7 O- s" `4 Y+ K1 `
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. ) w0 p& b. L2 T2 h5 P9 r
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. ; E- {& L# d9 J1 R( v% P
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. : Q# r8 r% g7 C% t7 Z* O) d# A
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, " o6 ~2 Y& H: R$ o
but also where you are going.
8 [8 x7 c2 b- D1 ], B. N9 } Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. , K; h# x& n; V$ A7 J
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 9 ]* L t( w8 ~* c
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
. }; t5 v$ p' ?2 j8 W' M) [( wTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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4 I. X2 z: S8 c6 `1 D) X 努力保持生活平衡 3 j4 R! W! m: ?- h6 m6 K+ O$ }
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想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
" c h2 m" `8 L; f如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 % q. T( v6 O1 y. ?# Q4 `
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 . s4 V1 I* C) {! b3 X( v
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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$ j# S5 y" _8 {不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 9 U/ O% r5 K, J+ v$ |6 |
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 ! b; M2 Z; W# e) n
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 8 H* G0 y+ q2 u5 ^; F! L9 c! z" l( T
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 - l% [7 \( k: ~! o
9 C' e* v* B: a5 S; E: w不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； & b1 E; O# [6 C
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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& z/ F5 r- @0 n, ^0 R8 g% a( W4 |不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 0 S; _6 B& R% d6 h% f; A/ A' z
' ~$ z& }7 A: ?- `7 w: D不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 ' ?/ W. J! g- E9 O1 _: P% n
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 + K% w: q- t W: k
; s8 `4 ?, K% g不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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" P: K3 h$ D. L5 P$ n$ h生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
$ H0 L3 G l% Z) g3 e2 h5 H昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
0 h: B& t3 @+ M4 d( C' o) V那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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