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& l6 t. h$ _; R Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
9 k1 i1 ]8 F7 y9 J* K# Tyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
; V4 ]$ K+ H7 ZBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. . @) u7 D* v- P1 {- S2 y' r
They will never be the same. - Y4 k" [' w: A! W6 c: Z$ \$ m# |% T& Q
( i* r% c/ A0 O) l' ^ You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
5 K% O3 N+ Z' Q- d Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
/ f3 `" {$ `0 r; o" `$ bIt is because we are different that each of us is special.
, c L# m2 W, O0 s- {" p# F# h Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. / Z% @7 D! F0 n: f) B, M
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
8 Z9 C9 d. M/ t: A7 ~ Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. : ^0 A% T/ I7 Z0 \9 }& \% E7 ^
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. . N' o: n3 s0 ?/ e
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
9 k" e, j9 {: M# j. _' }, g5 p Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
% V% c* P \ r2 ?1 A Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. / B& m& V3 d! ]6 p3 z) W9 @
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
: Y9 {- t- Z, f5 `6 |3 wThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
1 g- |) x0 K2 Z Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
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Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. " ]. @# ~* L3 |3 k7 c/ [
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
& E w2 |: l( p' q e% F Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. 7 S: |, ` _5 O9 D+ v, g
' J/ p3 y1 H7 h3 F Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
T, U; A" F Y5 G0 ^Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. + w) r. m- x- h. g5 e/ {6 o
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努力保持生活平衡
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7 x8 n1 b1 Z/ J3 E --布莱恩.戴森
& ?. y: _) {* v 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
+ c( _$ e: r d# J8 a* d. g+ O- R如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 : X R7 F1 Z# z4 y" X
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 6 S3 @' Q& X+ U8 s, q! \) k! Y. y
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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: ~* `3 p; E- C不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 , m2 ~2 C, G2 K
# c5 z+ r+ I' _3 e% G不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 ( |3 V4 c/ K. I" M5 A
/ R. s+ p6 O. x1 }; g不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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2 R4 k; P* ~! D1 d; B当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 8 V% ^0 W! y8 O% \( x- H) w9 [
|5 q7 H' {7 c4 h- _9 X不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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: } F. m% @% f2 H% t9 M不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； ) c$ W4 x! L) G- }0 b8 m u1 D
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 # y5 U+ V7 V% I l1 G
7 d) V' c: G; o. e不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 2 T A1 E5 q+ @& b
1 i# ^4 Z0 g- w) ]不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 2 K& F) ^4 i1 G+ |+ l" y6 V
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 6 P4 S/ R+ k3 B
( {1 z. Q; [ V0 d不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 1 `5 m( h5 S2 @6 u) c% ^9 d
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 7 N2 f$ C( `3 @
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 / I. l" L9 F( H7 W- b% |5 K" O/ C" {2 _
8 G1 m/ l2 S0 Z （周倩茹编译） , K# D6 `" \, C) l7 ~/ G$ C9 j
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