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Strive For Balance in Life 4 _. t( Q2 C! P ^+ c
努力保持生活的平衡
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by Brain Dyson
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3 j) T% y5 J) i* c. @$ Y" u Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. / l5 O# n' k+ T1 B# R
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
) b) O* J1 l5 {/ K4 X: EBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. 5 h2 ~+ x4 a/ y8 o6 ~. l
They will never be the same. " E* q! h6 _ I# w p+ _# a4 c% e
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 4 l: | q+ G+ N1 q/ a2 ~8 @
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. 0 @% ]- R/ @/ _
It is because we are different that each of us is special. : t- T; u2 W: [- b, t. b9 i
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
. `" Y1 Y A& J; k Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
) s1 W- E* u, H2 R3 W Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
, \# z( R) M3 ZBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
0 d A: h: G0 B6 `+ S0 K Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. @ m H" n1 I# g" a4 K
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
# }% a7 ~* O& k9 H' h Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. 9 ~" `) f$ a- d8 s3 u+ S
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 6 b" D! L3 y O7 {* o! `
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
* m- i* w1 x! U8 r+ M e Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
( N0 Q' w0 x% k3 l0 k2 pbut also where you are going.
1 ]$ b" N: ]' K" Z* m9 ~ Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. ' Q \, e, {" S" y- |' Z2 B2 v2 g
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. , W; m% m8 a& r; R D# l0 E
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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% T5 b" A" m% W2 {) c/ w4 n0 a5 \% | Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 8 W$ C' i5 v- ]3 H7 o/ a
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. 4 o' o) \( P0 |& w9 p. x! z! o
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6 l! X+ p/ h n) T+ v/ J+ E --布莱恩.戴森
5 D2 S! y, c& _3 i; ~/ E5 t& S 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
% G5 V, p% x* Q/ d9 B如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
\% M e& i5 y% a/ _* G% O9 w6 _它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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0 U" L8 A8 D c你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ + D b$ x7 u- y* `" @" E2 O; l
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 7 G C1 ]9 D; x3 d9 l
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 * x& Q# ^$ A) z6 B3 C+ j$ e
F$ C/ p; |3 \不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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& ~- b5 k4 i: |1 n9 ] ?( ]当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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" j8 }, V8 v8 i" ^9 @不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 $ k6 `+ r t% G% `! b8 ]: B
% S, w. o0 l9 T5 H不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 / B1 `5 W" A. s* z0 e. l0 F
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； ) S5 l8 X# S* R2 z- k4 ^
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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9 ?8 G1 P8 |# C% O$ R$ Q- e不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 ( Q7 g# ^% X; \& z* Q, n% R
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 . X4 W. w+ d2 W& r
. w! M: K, b! G# t: d. Q0 w不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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3 I7 v L0 N& D生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
+ d8 h8 E$ D% P昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： / d% S; @, d: G) T9 \6 L4 [& E7 b
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 7 Q$ P! E V3 _$ Z/ m- v4 m
6 b* ]/ t$ q+ ]# W4 i （周倩茹编译） $ G v2 e# ^( x; J! d6 ^
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