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Strive For Balance in Life
2 e9 V5 \% j* e: y% K" u 努力保持生活的平衡 ; @$ M. C/ S. J: o1 j; s
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by Brain Dyson
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. D: x& Y9 `: d0 m8 S a Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 3 g* ^. O* u0 ?7 _+ K% B2 L
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. 4 G& u2 v- {' k
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
0 s9 q; W" Y+ }3 F' z2 o6 B. }They will never be the same. $ x( `0 |. N! [! Q9 L8 J0 W
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 9 A: m1 a7 J7 s2 }* X: x' K* g
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
9 c: i' H/ B7 D) c6 e2 NIt is because we are different that each of us is special. . G9 ~3 \: W' C
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
" ^7 P/ x8 D" l Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
; j; C/ l) j: V e Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. " \1 Y/ K' a3 o" F5 W- O" {
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
! X# z. `: c% f* e) I; U Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. , \" N, n) m! ^0 P f. A3 L! t- G
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
* w/ h2 g2 A5 C. d' }' g+ \ Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. $ |9 {( R: }0 @3 e7 c: a" y N& S
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. ! N& l: L6 U7 U2 g4 J! Z
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. % u' R1 \. ^. ^5 s8 x; u6 }
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
8 J5 N5 [1 ^) ?- o1 x3 ]but also where you are going.
. ^3 U9 k% ^# @3 v+ E' c Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. 3 H5 Z& l6 [- ^+ o7 K8 J& R
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. - c% M# [- C8 j3 H2 P
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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% \; h! A- L: O% D& y- l0 ^5 n Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, $ Z% w" L5 P* j' ?
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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4 F: C+ y6 Y& o1 P! F 努力保持生活平衡 5 K8 w7 \ ?; M! u2 D
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--布莱恩.戴森 2 V" T: u: }, Y& H* I
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
4 A) X( O" Z2 h( R8 _0 t如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
" M" \0 d1 A" Q( K# x9 A% q它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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9 |% q+ I4 X ~/ r你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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6 s2 L( x0 J( L3 r0 R1 j不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 & d+ |. R0 o' M: Y
/ t2 N9 q* n$ z- `5 v. L不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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t' f( [6 q- @0 x* V不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 1 V- [; l- I2 ?
# P/ `1 r; R6 o7 k不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 * [0 F& ~: U; }/ ~
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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9 O7 V$ _) M' J7 B6 b$ F不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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. v# S9 k' D2 n$ t6 m' E不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
1 U E$ X* e4 c; V( D失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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6 j( j9 H! i3 U) t4 ?5 z不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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% ^7 W) l# e( }$ @不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 ! s& a1 b, d& |( ^; k* u$ I
* d/ N, t( e+ A# `不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 9 o& O% D% L9 `( w. `
, k4 t9 s( G& @2 _* x3 [不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 " u& w2 J3 _% F. I: g3 G
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 4 f9 k3 Q4 J5 ~
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 # ^, l. i$ x# X7 m+ N4 f& S0 r
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