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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 3 t/ W: {8 q. Y" V' `
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. ) r7 B% F8 `* b" J
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. 6 f, Y. y, _9 a- u2 `$ r
They will never be the same.
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9 }% V! _; q, c You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
; C( p/ c$ f N' \: L Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
) x- g- l Q+ z6 a+ A- |' m( mIt is because we are different that each of us is special.
2 c) z0 V" S& `- R1 I6 E" J4 X Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. 8 U' l, o7 J# F, m& ?) `# x+ I+ e. ?
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
4 Q5 U! H8 h4 n Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
0 [" n3 D4 ~$ LBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
1 x5 D8 Q6 A6 m: l* C" p2 z Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. + L$ K% i- i* H$ |
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
8 u5 r! B2 S# Q! ]3 B% E Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. 7 L2 }/ _, ~' M
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
1 U2 k. G; v# U: ]3 _/ EThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. + _/ k' P4 u1 F$ Y
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
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2 g* L( J( _( ?0 Q. w3 @ Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
& m/ H7 d+ P& [8 e k: v Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
; b/ {+ y5 d* u" l# i0 O8 e3 D Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. 8 `/ B" v" ^3 ?9 L% L
+ a, l, J8 f( o+ [7 Q+ y; T8 [) ~ Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
& W: J2 c! ]. iTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. $ ~- i7 {2 k8 {. x' Y
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想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
) C1 }, f6 n) `如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 $ c: L, B! B. @) U
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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# D* x1 W1 H+ S: s+ U你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ 8 w4 f3 a/ S) G2 L/ _2 b3 m( ] D
' L o0 i' v: x% p4 g4 N2 n! `不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 - H1 w1 z5 ^% X, u+ d
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 , D) L0 R* [7 V7 O, O6 \
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 " |9 }' q0 k. O
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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4 g: C0 R2 z3 ?6 E% h% `7 N不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 , V5 o6 S5 X* h9 H4 E5 G
\8 H& x% L7 r7 @ k0 w: p' n不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 9 W( l+ h7 w4 b! c6 R7 B! y
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 2 E, j$ L. `6 h! w
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 7 n' t: E6 c ?. I4 K; |
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 + u2 _: s% h$ N- o+ Y" s
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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% k: ~- Q3 g! H4 D1 a不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 ' p" Z* ~; O' N4 j! @
! m( _- l1 Z& j; `生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 ) d, p# W6 {. X9 O
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
! H) w: d& B5 F! t那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 0 o0 R# x! Q1 V( v1 K0 T( @0 s
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