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努力保持生活的平衡
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
2 m* ]3 d+ w, w: {you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
, d' J7 v: G2 j7 SBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
. V& p1 N* S" Y AThey will never be the same. & a3 w: X& i* r# A1 H# f
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
, w6 x7 o* b! S5 v; g7 D9 p/ ] Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
% C( ] w$ _. h5 [. F; b. d6 ZIt is because we are different that each of us is special.
1 L" E1 w3 n7 l( f' [' O! X Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. 2 |( i; n Q. k m" V
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
" H' A# s# C1 V$ H d. g, _1 q$ b( Y8 d Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. ! c7 L' u' S; j
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. - \5 c% Q8 S4 Y7 X: g
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. , U7 p$ q5 G2 A0 @5 z
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
/ i8 Q5 h! p+ S, O. f. n, c) Q Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
. ^5 L0 s6 s& t% D" j Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
+ G& h) C9 I" ~9 ^* ?1 ~The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. {+ D' A5 i) R. o) l9 F" }9 [: O W
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, & `4 p _; V* r" ~, c
but also where you are going. 1 u! C. M: C, z
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
% ^1 J# Q- F; e! t2 h* o Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
?) V, F3 l+ g }1 u6 L" B: p) | Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. 4 ?9 o# b5 o3 [: [$ o, m- @+ A1 d0 M, e
9 J3 M) t, E G- Z) ~9 T Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
7 Y& P% D7 [) @1 l7 qTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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0 ~7 d, N3 n B* j! b" V 努力保持生活平衡 , ?/ f) d' U5 G
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--布莱恩.戴森
~7 b0 y$ q) Y7 d6 l" ]. a: q+ Q! _ 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 ) y* C6 a: a5 Z* h" Z
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 : _: z1 [* f. f2 u. T% i4 D3 [
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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) E5 ]# q7 N$ @; y5 \& a0 g9 k你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ $ v$ K8 L8 r% J, E9 |2 C
, \* k0 u! r: G7 u$ p; ^) A不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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; `* s5 Y0 R$ X! ~8 P. F+ E不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 " K @, r$ p- H X& ]9 u0 H
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 9 D2 b+ Q( e/ K; g- b) x
4 v1 I+ E" y6 b( N不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 O. [ ?& Z" d% C
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 ' t' f6 |0 }- F
$ G; L6 q' i% K( q3 V3 e" Z不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
: h& e2 F, A) ~) c" l0 P失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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0 S& Q3 A7 [, q不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 ( e; g$ y5 i- k3 _6 t, U
+ Z6 l; x/ u9 y7 e7 X不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 , y6 J+ P5 Q; {( Z5 S: t
6 I0 O" W2 R n2 X* r$ i1 p& b# s生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 0 }4 Z, P% Y6 ]# ~' L8 n
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
! m8 L, \7 d! u" [2 _那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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