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+ v2 e3 S2 P ~2 T Strive For Balance in Life
& d3 c- v4 |9 v. u- \0 H5 C 努力保持生活的平衡
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 6 W5 q0 @$ B5 p
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
) L5 H# ?4 d s9 v/ o1 n7 kBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. # W( T4 T _6 s
They will never be the same.
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+ H% M- ?* b* t1 c1 |$ A You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? . T1 i- i8 D* I$ l+ v* D
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. ; M3 q; Y" W* ?: f
It is because we are different that each of us is special. ; N! {) z) b* E% [0 J( B
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
9 n7 M6 K$ Z- N$ ?& C Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
' p" C4 ?' k0 ~4 t; U, h" y: D# F Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. * h9 r/ I) `" b+ `9 d7 \7 q
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. # C6 b& _% ]/ Q# a! L
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. & v2 [6 O; M+ @8 E
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
5 @5 N8 _4 G* ^4 }: J( J- O Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. ! N+ |7 N) b k* y5 i- K
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. % F2 r6 w2 A4 u$ F; r2 ?1 E& ~
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. 5 ~) j: m! x5 M
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
4 n! l( ^1 _5 x* w: e2 I, A6 A. x7 jbut also where you are going. 0 z$ r. o0 O( C* g$ m2 h
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. + N$ {0 S" z# S8 d
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 3 e7 ^1 p5 ^- ^9 ~6 u$ ]7 O
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
0 J- b7 [& b9 I" @: uTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. 9 Y7 z A5 }3 }" M4 k; f# A
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努力保持生活平衡
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" A8 B* n! t& ~# Z8 h4 i6 F --布莱恩.戴森 & I! \2 n; Y' @: y" _5 S+ U
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 `6 Q6 r/ A8 l. P4 _$ H: y0 _4 o& u
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
; y: H* Q, C0 X/ D6 v% }它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 , G+ E8 Y6 I7 ^3 D
$ ^4 W1 \3 `0 V) l' k* x3 {你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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* w$ `0 u! ?; y$ S( B* W不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 # t3 R# C4 p9 L
* {+ Q. t6 g, x# s" y( \7 |" U/ o不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 ( b& A7 b1 R# i \# V; b+ b
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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: _$ z7 Q8 h5 b2 Y+ s不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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* E, S ^2 ?0 u% P不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 4 a4 `$ p+ z- n1 U) P* e! e
4 }6 U: O9 J7 G, X. J7 I3 o2 r1 Q7 c不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
, K, e' I: G* T失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 0 p$ E' W$ S0 D) S, s1 z+ f
7 ]& |" M2 |8 b% N5 S不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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4 J9 f3 a5 ]' J8 n5 O2 @不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 2 ^# D- a7 T( X
- J+ e0 |: A; ~( @% B& c- w! b不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 ) B/ x" o& ]* |7 F- _! w: Z \
" p1 h& M6 W* C& J9 g# ^6 r生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
) e) s* r) r' B$ G昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： ; F/ r9 e$ G0 U
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 ' r) H( t C8 r7 O
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