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5 o% z1 B( a0 H: r7 X- [ Strive For Balance in Life ; x2 T. U! f& k3 I& D$ d* G/ A
努力保持生活的平衡
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% X6 x& l: U" u/ i9 @; q8 z by Brain Dyson # b; r) l2 H% {4 p
2 k5 x6 i2 P) i% @& M) @ Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 9 c2 R8 S, A7 W. Q0 P; Y; z x
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
1 A1 L6 H, h, I/ D$ R, W; z2 WBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. " q1 N& T1 b3 g
They will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? + C( Q0 d5 B9 l! T- e
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
- L* f( m& U5 N! b: aIt is because we are different that each of us is special.
( J6 J! b) O6 b7 v Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. D% e: ]+ J% K/ ?0 I
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. 5 V/ |% L9 o( S# ]6 n8 V, A$ ? C
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
! n" I! A9 E# K5 xBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. % D, t5 `$ b. N3 c" y* E' u" z. F) Y
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
1 H b* B( o, y4 O+ r Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. # I& I, o2 x3 @6 I
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. 2 [# b3 M' y3 i* K4 y0 l
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. ' m% P! \ Y' S8 t# l6 b! p- u8 }
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
* ?) [: D5 O6 f8 X" ~! H Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
T/ f9 B4 ^5 o0 ]' I3 X) cbut also where you are going.
_( e4 n( _' H' O2 l6 |2 r/ S Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. * p T! |5 Y4 X d9 W7 L
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. ; }0 b6 r! K. e( m. X7 A
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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' K/ F7 ?1 `. g* G# A Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 7 P Y6 R0 k% w9 I
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. 1 o8 K3 i5 V& M! M* S+ a
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努力保持生活平衡 1 n* Q) p/ i m' @* S5 O1 x/ q7 t' q) l
; o8 j/ ?3 y6 m --布莱恩.戴森
. B0 n- s# B" _% O) ` 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 ! G$ h! n* u2 K% \' t
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 / e3 P% P: K- T5 F7 @; d% J
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 0 {! {3 J- n( a
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ 3 A F s `* a9 R1 e8 v6 q1 I5 `
' v4 k$ I! f0 @& N# q' Q不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 - O- e& X" j9 d* y! N$ ~, L
. t4 ?; U5 w4 o" }不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 ; x6 ]: {3 c3 [: r; t) {' D
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 9 A# h4 S2 v) N5 e0 b, H" S
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 " K. m6 k) r3 i5 T. h0 L+ m) h
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
( ^+ n! W& U1 b, l+ X: o失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 $ {! Y9 y+ e# z( y( M& J! H7 _4 t: C
7 j8 _! ], }- E( M3 t不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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4 @0 R z; p! K1 Q% ^" O- N不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 # b& J' l# f+ X: H* `! D1 w
1 f0 r! V% R ^9 Q7 {6 S不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
$ h5 U- h/ x* S3 u8 n昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
/ {1 b9 V. M& `' s, |那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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（周倩茹编译）
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