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6 Z* [& d9 ]' C2 z# q1 N: M9 Z! c. r 努力保持生活的平衡
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, X2 E8 R- i) t) B by Brain Dyson : G8 G2 L7 B3 E6 ?! ~, A
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
- m) E0 E( t+ c; _: Vyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. ; A9 M) z0 [; M2 r+ P. K
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
7 X+ r" E2 _3 k$ _They will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
. }. c9 F4 }: S Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. * _* V+ I1 g2 `* K4 Z: d; b8 R/ o6 m2 Q
It is because we are different that each of us is special. ; k* O8 N+ j' F0 n* ^ O
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. , Y# L! A, R- V! I
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. - g7 t+ i) |/ L
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
5 J3 E8 N' ? [ C* dBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
+ V+ ]) P2 R9 n/ o, u Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. + u/ J; N7 j* @; q
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. * z/ p$ ?' g) a; f7 ^6 {8 q: z/ O
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
( S# r' b0 F s0 h4 i# w Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
' h7 G& T- b% YThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. 5 l+ L9 S2 [- [4 u. n1 w) s0 A
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, ; R5 N; u) ?8 H. h7 I( m
but also where you are going. , X* d' U4 s' ^. S' n* V, G0 K
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
K' q" c: X" T7 S: { Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 6 d5 ^8 V% j* B9 y3 ~" z
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, i1 ?5 D, _1 g4 x& H1 M% u
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. * E" T" v, V8 n! V& G! a
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( a+ G1 |7 e4 e+ `; ?2 e- | --布莱恩.戴森
8 R! p4 L) d: Y 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
9 i$ f$ ~% ] ?, q) T如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 3 j: @' c: H3 W' Y7 p( S
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 3 p/ j( r4 [- D6 E, e! t
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ / P e: E# y) Q" p4 \5 n
) ^$ d: g% ]7 d; V9 g- f' D4 R不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 ; a/ E) J' N! K2 F5 u% [6 Y
4 s, v- c0 w) d5 B不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 4 ?" V: t4 G( s7 o
( ] a* v- L p [不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 ; O% I# @, P5 f: }
3 ]- a* }8 ^* ~5 o! _0 N, n不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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; O0 L9 ]4 v' P当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 7 j0 K# \! B4 K; J
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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' r; E+ |) l7 k0 p, k不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 0 y: ^/ V6 [0 z+ P, Z; W4 U
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 $ J ?7 f% X8 A. X. P$ p! Z9 E
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 ( I. d6 m" Z8 f3 m
3 o1 s* B) `! Z5 \1 V' ]1 B2 y5 j不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 0 s0 }7 H' B& v6 z, G9 d' z* B
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 ! U' s* {. ? @% [: P
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 % k/ l3 L! g4 j0 a6 Z' C! Z
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
" e0 g& f5 v1 V% E3 M那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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5 T5 O- `: x) | （周倩茹编译）
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