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Strive For Balance in Life , g1 s- s( a3 N/ G6 |$ ^3 T
努力保持生活的平衡
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# N' O1 W6 T- J3 O by Brain Dyson
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: E1 k( s" w9 P' R/ |( a Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
. W7 ~1 |% b Wyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. ( W1 k0 A, W$ v) S" @+ o# k
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. # q. Z1 v; v G; y0 ^ M
They will never be the same.
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2 g" \& O/ p2 H7 |% L7 M You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
# T% d) F1 t: n; k) W' ? j Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. 8 s' k0 }! f# A9 D& j( c
It is because we are different that each of us is special. ) [2 t7 J; B" i6 t8 I
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. 9 m% q4 |9 o2 D9 o7 L- k. `
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
% ?9 v3 ^" n) j" n$ E/ [ Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
/ |( y, `3 {* i9 m+ |6 _By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
' C% w2 \2 _( O6 R3 A Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
* a% Y7 E* ^' o: z9 ?+ ~9 O Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
6 w5 v* ]4 ]4 \$ N" A! @ Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. : s2 N, l% |# X( P: Z& J
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
/ R8 a9 }. b: \. c/ i% `The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. 0 ]* b) ?: q' L+ s r
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
. W. ~! S, x0 R4 a4 Mbut also where you are going.
& @) v$ K3 B* `+ u7 x# E2 N Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. 7 u" k( K; R* v, y% F- o9 T
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
6 [# _- j3 \3 ^1 m# ` Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. % p" o) y: k) q0 v8 R
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 9 E2 Q: ?/ @) M3 Q
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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$ w( C8 T: w! @ s4 t' z) w 努力保持生活平衡
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- h6 P5 V7 Y4 |. d --布莱恩.戴森
: R8 c- B4 U( x8 ^3 f 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 # O' w, {: T7 y& [8 \
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 ?: T& t6 X/ E. V& w& P6 ]0 Q
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 * Q( b) _/ {" g8 E: m5 i) g. u
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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& g9 O4 @( {5 Y3 o: L% m- H不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 # G8 K9 p; n6 s; p% g' _: z
# p' |- X1 E5 X- a' x( R% J不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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% c$ B9 h, ~, g G" [7 x; d不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； 0 f7 e7 V+ T$ `6 V+ d" s/ e, I
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 ' g. S. O/ C. M3 G( g/ ]/ j' P1 {
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 6 [* \8 G9 o) u# P" y: H: F
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 & D5 ~9 A- a% Y! X' M$ U% g
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 , e2 X* F3 B7 n) }' y
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 # A+ a/ e9 f9 x# Y( |
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
( ~% L3 T7 W% J( m8 d那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 0 d0 S, F2 B! Z2 ^+ i s
- G8 T; \2 F7 }$ Q) C （周倩茹编译） 7 _* k; j: M2 L* q
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