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1 a1 I, p% k1 V+ n4 N1 G Strive For Balance in Life
5 a' P+ d/ ^: O3 W0 g 努力保持生活的平衡
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by Brain Dyson
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. - g9 M, V* @& |
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
6 g; k1 J" K! q' w1 o. RBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
) e8 o* J3 w/ JThey will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 6 A2 D" H; _3 n
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. : C/ O) K4 u7 Z7 D2 _! R% y) _; ?* @
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
+ v+ U K2 j0 h Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
& Y) u$ C/ L4 F. J* A5 N1 n Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
: u. |. f3 p6 C/ t Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. + K! t k7 v! O8 Z7 b4 h) T9 H
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
1 E; z6 b+ f/ ?' X Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
, B9 s; o* k3 i; x; G0 C Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
^- e: o! F5 U0 o- o1 f% } Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. 4 D3 I0 A0 l( X c
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 0 r0 r! T" }+ F. H4 D
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
! N1 v0 N/ m: U* ~ Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, + h# ^) c% L1 l& t) Y
but also where you are going.
/ r4 m5 o6 `/ I. U" W Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
$ o4 l" q6 L: ^% l2 R% s- | Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. 2 A+ \& O' e1 O Z; P
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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% a; C6 ]4 v7 e, g* l, |# A8 d' e: v" J Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, $ k( ^9 x) G0 n6 T; f
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森 [! D, r; n8 k9 `; ^+ y
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
8 c' s5 c& }% G+ G% r- u8 {% e如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
f4 q3 v ^% y2 F9 w( c它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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1 v* o8 W# e0 p1 t你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 , G8 m& E5 l4 O* }1 I$ M
% D0 ]8 `9 L6 l+ M不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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- S8 w) \' |* O/ z; S不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 % j' u* [. s/ J) M. Z4 O. v J
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 0 k! m: w6 x' k& m, `1 G+ g
# n; v5 U x0 H/ n不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
: p" g4 ]; K9 j( V& H. E1 J失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 ) g$ o6 U7 e( ?( z$ p6 T5 F- J) ?7 w
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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/ W) G- z# x- e/ o1 q. ~不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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5 ^' I) ?& p- P* B# I不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 8 a: n: z1 e, K! w6 A
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 . L, j: d+ @; s; e3 `$ g% h, Z
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
4 E# D* ?" j& C% g% ?那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。 0 f. h1 D7 ], E# y/ U$ t
8 g, o9 G; N- T （周倩茹编译）
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