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: t! U& r" {" c/ @. S7 u Strive For Balance in Life 9 J. { h$ r& E! Z3 H
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. 3 J4 u }8 s2 ?' S+ U' E. p0 P- F
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
* E* |' z0 e% V# h7 iBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
; q6 \0 E( B3 LThey will never be the same. % H7 L! c) O' y4 p* k4 _8 r* s8 c
' e0 A! V9 W c- t7 n( s( @ You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
& G) f% R0 X% j+ I" l6 ~1 q9 M5 a Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. . k* r" x0 a, I! p4 p
It is because we are different that each of us is special. ) M; Z+ ~9 G2 [* V3 Q9 T2 L2 L/ V
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you. # E: D0 V' q( c! x3 V/ l
Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. ) e3 }. A7 X# `0 j- p; q/ v* x" x5 x
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
' v" c5 V. Y5 R M0 H: f" TBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. % g; r' V8 W( _0 ~2 \3 e
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. 4 F" C: {, @5 t3 |$ v! b2 u: {
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
: K1 H5 h3 A6 s* T4 n4 M Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. ' }& Q9 o* H9 y4 U9 p
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
: U) w U) c5 V. t$ kThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
+ _- E8 }0 B3 I/ z& e+ u Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
. S- @" d: Y+ q7 ?8 T' p& ebut also where you are going. 4 \9 n$ B& E4 E% L
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
: g% R8 u/ v% M- z Y Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
3 F) ?0 k# z+ Z t3 \, x% ` Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
$ ^3 l, a% P( @4 A% {/ UTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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努力保持生活平衡
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% G/ V0 v8 L1 V0 Q --布莱恩.戴森 , o: [& _+ V/ w: n
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
3 e1 @ d6 m- M3 s) J: G; d如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。
7 U& \" |/ y: M! x$ e它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 0 l! Y. T7 N% w0 M: P4 _
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？ ) \# Y: V9 c1 \
+ j: c7 ^; z6 u3 q. R不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 5 P$ J* @& i& x
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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% H. q( [( c# L$ S不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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$ v, | H9 x. {; c; |不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
5 @, Z5 @+ H6 s0 Z( N失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 ( |. p, U9 `9 x
( |7 D" T: W1 p( C; @& t不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 ( R. S8 c" G; y& z) L, a
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 . m9 m5 F( o! r
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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8 m) N; G2 d) o' S. R* ~* n! H生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 , s: H9 l) F' r" T) z% N
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
" T* A8 e( `+ ], a8 F1 ?那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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9 x6 d5 I5 J# F9 A （周倩茹编译） 6 p3 c5 I( t1 F# E# a8 K+ D# D
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