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3 w$ y( K$ T3 G' G+ x2 D5 S; w Strive For Balance in Life
0 i# a& k" V0 A. Z! B) z 努力保持生活的平衡
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. / H W- \! w z# {
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. 8 ^8 { z9 D, _3 U
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. : i2 Z. @" g8 I. B5 s
They will never be the same.
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 2 \8 ?5 f q% A I2 [. ^
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. + B0 g& w- T- `. p
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
2 y. t7 l' u0 \1 H Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
7 b! \2 m6 b2 W, W" k. Z5 C! Q Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. 2 [9 s$ P5 E, A3 K: @
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. ; ]0 T) C3 f) z# b
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. 8 i4 M/ G# l+ S
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. ) }* M% p7 }9 Y2 b6 o2 X& _- P
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
0 V9 g% Q/ p: p9 @; j0 B$ K* j7 @4 X Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
1 h. d+ W8 ^6 t5 u# ]% V. j Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
2 I( I( b+ S. Q# B" f( B. [! GThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
) O$ ?& r$ |; A' p Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
$ _% b- i! \; s; tbut also where you are going. , S/ Q: M2 O/ m5 I2 p0 C/ E$ o
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
' V7 W9 h+ V7 n' r Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
% w; Q9 R5 D) V$ B! k! _2 R Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. " S, e4 L/ B$ f" Y& }* m* Y
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
- S# z( M$ L. Y. g( \, t! _Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. D9 Z- z H7 n! k4 g9 J" m+ ^
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8 e2 Y8 Q, ]0 g' w/ u) H' ], c --布莱恩.戴森 / _/ W. M. r" k" ?* ~& ^5 a Y( z0 O
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 / x5 w& E! r0 X+ {. h3 k) W* a
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 $ @" @, C, I2 `
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 , B& N% u6 R& q
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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+ k# Q5 `: Z3 z7 P% c7 P% F6 s不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 & G' n; }( J0 q8 k+ Y# z
" d/ z6 s1 O, `0 N不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 $ d) U' L) l& J7 c+ K8 z
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 9 o# W d$ c. k! Z
, q! V- e2 j! L2 D, c; Y当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 $ I( c, O7 r2 ]$ Z
. z+ y5 L1 J9 z9 f7 N不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。 6 P" a! ]. z6 R8 y
% J8 e. |/ I# ]不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
/ B: e+ v- g( M/ F5 G失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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- ^8 t6 [8 a- v( a; u不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 * y7 s& C/ C, r3 G e) c4 Y
$ I) k" M# b4 a8 ~不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 3 F& b" T1 a- ]9 R) e" y" {
% f2 t* y- \* ?+ Y) @+ H) `生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
, y8 _, ^ `2 L1 |昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 4 {0 P! K( F# `" i- U% a5 Q9 r6 x
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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