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Strive For Balance in Life . q4 Z$ M3 K8 _5 `
努力保持生活的平衡
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: V/ y0 `! J% F( |8 T, @$ `: u by Brain Dyson 5 i" H: _0 n# o4 j3 `4 \" F
. m+ W3 H+ `! n Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air.
* P9 `6 L+ |6 r( f( Z$ Dyou will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back. : P+ K3 r3 B, \; D
But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
, ^) ?( j* Z: w' L5 @9 o Y3 y3 E4 lThey will never be the same.
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! ?, n0 V( b& k+ P1 A% H You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
) i+ n) J' Q* D' W4 q Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. - m4 a8 w3 @. ^! q! X0 a
It is because we are different that each of us is special. 6 ]" O$ t+ {$ o3 f3 `1 A
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
$ L% t* o+ w. o& d! Q' U! p Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. / n0 {# E1 ~2 _1 Z) {2 W# }# b! w- v
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. ' L! L9 Y9 [6 |6 [
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
( N4 ?5 ], ^$ [8 c Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. 1 L% L0 e8 L- S0 X
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
( c$ k& n2 D7 [! m# L) u Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. 7 |5 ^$ L! s0 c/ P U" _
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. % b3 @! a4 J* K( }
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
& T5 L: O# U1 M, ] Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been,
6 y& R7 B+ ^- Q7 ^& C* Obut also where you are going.
6 }8 W, b u3 v# Y f Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated. & R3 ?5 S- h1 [3 J+ u& @
Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. $ H7 K4 i6 F1 ] `& Q
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
( H0 ]3 E5 g: K' i5 {1 {: o$ [" b9 KTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森 0 s+ w) F0 [' U+ R; i% _
想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
5 [8 d @$ @+ e8 [, }- p( p5 i如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 4 a- \8 o4 q$ p; a2 }: C
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 9 D( V2 `/ j( _' x- L6 q
' U6 S' q$ L& Q, g/ p! I你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 ) l5 m2 {4 c% O8 B1 g9 A
/ E- g( ]' b( B T4 h不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。 % Z/ ?& U2 w& {
2 w$ U- P+ E% V7 I& a$ T不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 . v% P7 D# G$ ~: R# ?8 m
& \4 F6 c- Z* W3 g( I0 e3 W不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。
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- T/ I7 {5 f! Z当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 8 }. p+ K$ f, c7 j; F
7 c1 `* y- I" _1 y1 B, ]4 E+ H$ V" J' X不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 8 {6 ` k7 h) s. J
) B8 F9 _9 [5 w8 J" Q不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
! y0 n/ H* n' T. M失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 : S# f# J3 X ?0 z; n
6 Q5 O; p* o6 _* e不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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9 I; D/ U. ]7 _) I0 A* v不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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5 N- h& b+ k V) F3 Y: x生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
3 {- _* n' a7 P) x) V; v7 ^昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： * w: q* g5 |) }; T' z
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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