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Strive For Balance in Life
4 u" @$ H! p( M7 p. u 努力保持生活的平衡
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0 F- m% c- S& h by Brain Dyson
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+ ]* ]9 U( I% l8 |" ^6 x- U! f6 ^ Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. " z9 O8 X! c9 p9 U9 o7 v* U9 I
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
! [# J! z. Z3 h# YBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
. ]9 ^6 ?4 ]: Z' d/ Z* RThey will never be the same. ( J7 L. r6 H) j7 j. L4 ?$ ]# ?
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 8 O2 g' N: C U" z P
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. : y9 X! y# Q9 ^
It is because we are different that each of us is special. 3 m8 p# N. ?& h. r" V/ |. X1 |
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
9 b% Q6 }5 y3 W1 Q6 Y; r9 p% s8 k Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
+ M% c$ ^+ @, Q `4 R. F8 E- I5 [9 O Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. / D! |: Z! e" k# W
By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
2 p+ P( S0 w+ ]8 h! W& _8 u Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
S+ k( l" c$ G; E% K5 | Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together.
% L* k7 ]' C4 X Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. - I( I9 L) k1 x; n d
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find.
. C" F- a* a& L5 s; f, N1 TThe quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings.
% w3 d$ S( d7 p1 ~ Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, # \( e* `8 T' P% ^4 z
but also where you are going. 4 [# N; h9 M: v( r3 ~# L0 Y
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
9 P8 d, |, U9 y: v Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. , ^" N, J8 J' Q& \* r* f
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. 7 a" `1 K) r. Y* z, [- Y) E
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
- K/ A7 _( R2 F% F2 VTomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present. : @$ D5 z- v! u' J+ g$ m
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! o3 v$ G6 ], s 努力保持生活平衡 9 l- q$ A9 t) B" w7 y
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--布莱恩.戴森
' q/ F' ^4 |. J 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
% Q! _6 `: L# p如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 6 Z1 A- U; C$ E/ w8 w! P+ o% p
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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* [0 @2 y; C' j% m不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 ' C& ]- i" @/ j: ?
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不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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% }9 m" u! a1 D7 T* V! ~不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 * w5 M- ^# Z( z/ q
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 + M R, m" [$ x& T+ h/ ?+ h7 b4 L
( ]' R6 q! l* |当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 5 y$ t/ l1 i4 }" F' v
6 v' b A* O5 I' O8 ~, S/ f不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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( p& Z: u' C1 h" l: B3 U不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 - g ~; v4 E1 b2 y: F0 M6 d" ?0 V
2 |6 V3 K K* f不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
3 |* ]& n& s# d. d* C4 o失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 , P) v/ U0 t, |8 `/ y5 b6 }/ u
% F8 U7 Q) @8 q不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。
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不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 ) a8 R5 t; F6 d" V, C2 F$ N, I @
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 * I; J e q' r8 t$ J. N
9 r) D/ w& ?# I不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。 " t7 B+ e4 P) q1 e7 L/ R. j
# W+ w6 Y# a, H* I: @0 M生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
& B6 L" E# \) d( K: W" ^% [昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物：
1 v* o3 p$ ^8 J1 p: J F8 u那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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