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Strive For Balance in Life 3 V$ u* H2 @' O- c) U
努力保持生活的平衡
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by Brain Dyson
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; q1 Q5 y/ S2 k6 S8 ^7 r* [2 G Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. * R, Q& D8 {4 f: W4 r
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
! y/ x8 N( {% u3 t& k( c! A7 g8 @! tBut the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered. ' D6 y/ ?: A1 t9 m+ [2 D/ |
They will never be the same.
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0 C9 T6 y3 W7 w, K You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How?
4 k# z* x- w0 X. | Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. 9 V4 U% Z9 b$ o4 s# v
It is because we are different that each of us is special. 8 e( i I ?6 R6 a8 C
Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
# B3 o8 E- c9 |: T' v( R0 K' } Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless. % @' s+ }! W* Y0 w! g/ x& O, W
Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
" u$ d! |+ D, T& M/ P. ^By living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life. " D3 z" d: M' D c( d
Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. 3 k' k$ ~8 _5 w; f3 B# U
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. 2 R v' I9 \" F( x
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave. & B7 W/ w# c( `1 y5 {" f
Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 6 X& k5 p- F' t
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. 1 i7 b; v# f0 ]- f+ J2 v; I
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, $ T) j) }7 H* H' d/ }
but also where you are going.
8 k% o( b% X/ p" X$ S; o2 |. N. | Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
) N3 f$ D3 a) `/ P/ M# X0 r Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily.
4 y& k* J! T/ c6 e3 }* N3 E& ~ N- J Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved.
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History, 6 K; [5 Z, a" B
Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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" R% |" b0 B4 H+ P3 k 努力保持生活平衡
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--布莱恩.戴森
) L% r" `/ n3 m% F 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。
/ L- K, ^' U. n3 x: L$ Q如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 - W0 W; i. `! D' V! }. @
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。 ; J) H, N) O' z1 E$ U
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你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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% N( ^+ S- k4 z: u( V+ w不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。
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+ n: F; ^. ^8 Y# T- p2 P; R$ I0 a4 u' m不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。 : U% r0 w; Y( `3 T; K. k
# S1 z" I3 _0 Y, @3 D w- z2 l( x不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 + {% w5 g w! n- m+ V/ ]+ O
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当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。 % d# F; r" y* u# |
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不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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7 P0 ^) g* g7 Z不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。
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9 ?9 B a U/ B( y- P$ v0 s0 M# e不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱； ) e) Z6 r9 q/ P. S0 t
失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 ' w0 e$ C% f& j2 e
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不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 7 I: E5 R! t- v+ A% P7 T* O" o
1 p8 ?( u3 p/ _不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。
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' l5 n: L3 h+ s+ C) f6 @$ Z- U不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。 % A: d B' i5 ?2 u, r4 W
9 e0 O' L* S* `: f2 I不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。
) z" t2 t! j3 q; D$ ^ J昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： 9 X& q& N& c# P) d. |" }' c
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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（周倩茹编译）
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