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Strive For Balance in Life & |: p0 j- `" R w8 t; y: M1 F
努力保持生活的平衡
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by Brain Dyson
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Imagine Iife as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.You name them—work,family,health,friends and spirit and you’re keeping all of these in the air. % r: s/ a. V1 l
you will soon understand that work is a rubber ball.Ifyou drop it,itwell bounce back.
0 B: _2 I7 W$ V5 E7 J( y1 |But the other four balls—family,health,friends and spirit—are made of glass.If you drop one of these,they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked,nicked,damaged or even shattered.
! \- B2 i$ D: f1 k; {0 k; r# mThey will never be the same. 4 ?5 b9 ]* ^: B/ y( s
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You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.How? 3 k5 o( j& F: y( s" h
Don’t undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. 0 {5 K* E! W' k e/ U+ ^5 l' H. y/ K
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
' D- a$ }& `# \* G4 u Don’t set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.
* q" Y( z* n* ~9 [3 O Don’t take for granted the things closest to your heart.Cling to them as they were your life,for without them,life is meaningless.
, U" Y+ c! D1 M7 e Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future.
/ ?1 k' I, u7 y- g7 M2 A) rBy living your life one day at a time you live all the days of your life.
5 @* ?# P- h( Y0 }+ S Don’t give up when you still have something to give .Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. ; l5 z9 n8 r7 k" F! B6 Y
Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each together. + b; j) j# V ?) o- E3 o6 \5 e& F: X f
Don’t be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
" k3 k0 i/ m6 R Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to find. 8 B8 ~3 y2 o6 P7 U7 Z I" ^
The quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to give it wings. * ]6 h. ]4 A% Z6 A" N) E- `; T
Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, 1 z" n1 @* Z# S1 B8 @
but also where you are going. 2 T+ F) O3 |5 N: T, M
Don’t forget, a person’s greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.
- R9 r' c7 J- _; i6 `. V, l$ b Don’t be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless,a treasure you can always carry easily. ( [! y& l" a, W- x
Don’t use time or words carelessly.Neither can be retreved. * J& J3 X' b; |1 i& l7 ^
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Life is not a race,but a journey to be savored each step of the way. Yesterday is History,
A2 k( U- i( d8 x" }Tomorrow is a Mystery And Today is Gift…..that’s why we call it The present.
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- I( V; r, [% k5 {0 p2 z$ s 努力保持生活平衡 & ?% h; O. l6 w5 H1 ~, ]
4 J' F8 T- Y1 d w --布莱恩.戴森
8 K0 U; P% S) m) F 想象生命是一种往空中抛五个球的游戏，你把这五个球分别取名为：工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心灵，而且你要努力不让它们落地。你很快会了解到工作是一个橡皮球。 ( Z7 z2 w7 z6 W0 O" R6 s8 J) V3 H7 q
如果你让它落地了，它还会反弹起来。但是，家庭、健康、朋友、和心灵这四个球是用玻璃做成的，如果你让它们掉到地上，它们将会不可避免地遭到磨损，留下印记、划痕，摔破甚至碎落一地。 ! ?, L7 n& l* b
它们将永远不会跟以前一样。
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! z) ^" G& @0 w9 w: I你必须了解这个道理，并且努力保持生活的平衡。但要怎么才能做到呢？
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不要拿自己和他人比较而贬低自己的价值。正是因为我们彼此不同，所以每个人才很特别。 : C* k$ x) k8 t
/ ]! Z# w) M0 _& ^不要因为别人看重那些东西而把它们设定为自己的目标。只有你才知道什么最适合自己。
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7 D+ z* N ^/ A7 q. J! B& r8 X不要将最亲密的人或事视为理所当然的。好好珍惜他们，就像是你的生命一样，因为没有他们，生命将失去意义。
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不要让你的生命总在留恋过去或是遥想未来中流逝。如果你活在每个当下，你就活出了人生的精彩。 8 e& Y+ F5 c: z# T+ v
9 q: o% u/ o; M) V2 ~) p& c: H当你还能给予的时候别轻言放弃。只要你不放弃，万事皆有可能。
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; D) ~0 }$ F/ ]5 M不要害怕承认你并非完美。我们正是藉由这脆弱的细丝紧密地联系在一起。
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6 N8 k, q/ [9 w% d& v不要害怕遇到危险。我们正是在冒险中学会勇敢的。 6 d) M1 d3 o' R9 S# g; M# _; b
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不要以真爱难求为借口而紧闭心扉。找到爱最快的方法就是给予你的爱；
3 o( g; Y4 Y* _4 @6 p2 N失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧地守着你的爱不放；维系爱的最好方式就是给爱一双翅膀。 5 X& u1 i1 h% m3 o7 @
8 C; Q: B5 L- E: X6 U/ r不要匆忙地走过你的一生，以至于忘了自己到过哪里，要往哪里去。 6 S c9 i' D5 ~
- {; U% v5 A* T' w2 s- `# T1 p' I2 H不要忘记，人类最大的情感需要是被人欣赏。 - p6 B2 \- b3 F% u7 r
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不要害怕学习。知识不会成为负担，是你可以轻松携带的珍宝。
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不要漫不经心地蹉跎光阴或信口开河。时间与话语都是收不回来的。
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生活不是一场赛跑，而是每一步都需体味的旅程。 2 e, `9 ]" y- V+ v* y
昨天已成历史，明天还未可知，而今天则是一份礼物： % |) F, c0 }; ^; h5 _, w
那就是我们为什么称它为“当下”的原因。
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