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兰台秘笈 发表于 2009-3-22 22:30:00

谢！

侠客行 发表于 2009-3-22 22:38:00

草色入帘青 发表于 2009-3-22 19:33:00

秘书长，怎么又发这许多感慨？
    人一般在伤感的时候易如此。

兰台秘笈 发表于 2009-3-22 18:48:00

“快乐<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">18<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">法”不错！这些年来时不常的会陷入消极情绪，调整起来并非易事。
<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">还是多保持一些乐观情绪更好些——说的容易，做起来其实挺难的，尤其当你不能自拔的时候。

兰台秘笈 发表于 2009-3-22 18:49:00

冼溪发表于 2009-3-22 14:25:00

小秋江说的很是在理，凡人都应该这样做。道理大家都明白，可做起来就不那么容易了。需要毅力，需要持之以恒，还要根据每个人的具体情况来制定不同的方法。总之，真正做到就不容易了。

冼溪发表于 2009-3-22 09:43:00

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder">以下是引用wangpei在2009-3-22 6:39:00的发言： 
你还不止这些，还能给别人带来欢乐。</div>
我琢磨着，这人就应该象个蜡烛，照亮了别人，也点燃了自己。

wangpei 发表于 2009-3-22 06:39:00

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder">以下是引用冼溪在2009-3-22 0:19:00的发言： 这年头，就要心态好，多想高兴的事，总觉得自己还年轻，还有很多事要做，保养好身体，乐观地生活。 </div>
你还不止这些，还能给别人带来欢乐。

秋江发表于 2009-3-22 10:48:00

<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">    相信自己，把握自己，战胜自己，超越自己<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">    积极与快乐<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; 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mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">行动<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">--<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">习惯<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">--<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">性格<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">--<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">命运、快乐<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">18<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">法等<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">    人生中没有<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">100%<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">，没有绝对，那是一种追求，我们就是努力去接近极限。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">人生要有大目标（或者叫梦想），我的梦想就是让人们都拥有健康人生，积极人生和快乐人生！梦想是大，是不好实现，是在近期实现不了，可我们自己可以先让自己拥有，再让家人拥有，再让亲朋或周围的人们拥有，然后再扩大之。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">    人的一生为什么而活着？可以说人在世上要<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">“<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">劳动并快乐着<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">”<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">！要有一份责任感，不是纯为自己。一个人要是没有名誉观，那他什么坏事都能做出来。一个人在世上的需求按马斯洛的说法分为五大需求：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">1<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">生理<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">2<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">安全<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">3<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">归属与爱<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">4<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">尊重<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">5<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">自我实现（实现自己的个人价值）。我们从理论上和实践上都应该把目标定在第五大需求上，最高层面的需求上，这样人生才能更精彩。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">    每个人都是只能看到自己的那一片天，或者就是井底之蛙一样，那么，我们怎么才能看到更大的天空？或者突破自我设限？那就是换位思考，站在别人的角度来看问题，站在更多的角度看问题，问题就被看的越全面，只从一个方面看问题，只从自己的角度看问题那就是盲人摸象。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">    让自己积极起来吧。积极了就会快乐了。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">    拿破仑<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">.<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">希尔的《成功原则》共十七项，第一项就是积极的心态，他说，只要你能把积极的心态与其它原则中的一部份结合起来，那么你就会成功。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">    每个事物都有很多个方面，有积极的一面，有消极的一面，积极的一面是对你有利的一面，消极的一面是对你不利的，那么你就只想积极的一面，只说积极的话，只做积极的事，让自己成为一个积极的人，你也就会得到一个积极的人生。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">**** <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">    附一：快乐<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">18<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">法<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">    保持快乐的<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">18<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">种方法<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">      1<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">有目标的追求<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">      2<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">经常保持微笑<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">       3<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">学会和别人分享自己的快乐<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">      4<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">乐于助人<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">       5<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">保持童心<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">      6<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">学会和别人愉快的相处（把自己定位有多高，就能和多少人相处）<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">      7<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">保持幽默<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">      8<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">处乱不惊<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">      9<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">学会宽容<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     10<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">有知心朋友<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     11<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">和别人保持合作<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     12<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">享受天伦之乐<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     13<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">保持高度的信心<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     14<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">尊重弱者<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     15<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">偶尔放纵一下自己<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     16<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">有空上上网（把握度）<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     17<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">有空到家里坐一坐<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     18<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">不是财迷<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   马斯洛需求理论：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     1<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">生理需求<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     2<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">安全需求
<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">    3<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">归属与爱的需求<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     4<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">尊重的需求<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     5<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">自我实现的需求（实现自己的人生价值）<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   附二<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   我喜欢的几句话：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     1<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">当你站在对方的立场考虑问题，一切问题都不存在了<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     2<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">你希望别人怎么对待你，你首先应该怎么对待别人<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     3<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">宁可人负我，绝不我负人<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     4<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">己所不欲，勿施于人。己所欲，勿强施于人<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> **** <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   附三<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   情绪管理<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   鼓掌的时候，两个大拇指，一个指向对方表示对对方的赞美，另一个指向自己，表示对自己的鼓励。<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   智商<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">IQ<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">占<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">15%<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">，情商<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">EQ<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">占<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">85%<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">，逆商<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">AQ<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">更重要<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   一、消极心态的产生：<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     1.<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">缺乏目标与希望<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     2.<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">对未来悲观<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     3.<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">害怕失败（不能停止不前，万一失败怎么办<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">--<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">中国式消极心理）<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     4.<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">半途而废<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     5.<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">否定现实<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     6.<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">埋怨抱怨责怪（我是一切的根源）<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     7.<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">空想与幻想（应该去行动）<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   二、消极心态产生的根源<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     1.<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">破坏性的批评<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   应对事不对人，批评他而不伤其自尊，不应对人不对事<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">  <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   让我们产生负罪感（期望过高）<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   有条件的爱（例：孩子考第几奖励什么，附加条件了，产生心理压力不一定起到正确的效果）<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     2.<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">不愿承担责任，或害怕承担责任（我是<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">100%<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">的责任者）<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   如：新疆克拉玛依油田大火烧死<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">125<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">个人，直到文化部长引咎辞职，因为他之前能负那个责任<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     3.<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">批评别人来显示自己<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">   三、控制情绪的步骤<span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial','sans-serif'; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">     1.<span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; 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草色入帘青 发表于 2009-3-22 05:51:00

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder">以下是引用秋江在2009-3-19 21:30:00的发言： 
     他们能每天看见太阳升起来就感到幸运</div>
    是啊。医生的忠告必须记取。
    曾听人（好像是东三省的）说，有啥闹心的事儿啊，搁医院瞅瞅去!

草色入帘青 发表于 2009-3-22 05:52:00

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder">以下是引用兰台秘笈在2009-3-19 22:58:00的发言： 水貌似较多，呵呵！   <img title="老北京网 www.oldbeijing.org" style="CURSOR: pointer" onclick="javascript:window.open(this.src);" alt="图片点击可在新窗口打开查看" src="http://bbs.oldbeijing.org/images/emot/em219.gif" onload="imgresize(this);" align="middle" border="0"/> </div>
    水多好啊！北京可是缺水地区，最需要水了。

冼溪发表于 2009-3-22 00:19:00

这年头，就要心态好，多想高兴的事，总觉得自己还年轻，还有很多事要做，保养好身体，乐观地生活。

侠客行 发表于 2009-3-22 22:57:00

人非圣贤，心情好坏并不重要，重要的是：心情好就去感染别人，心情
 
不好可以发泄，不要憋屈自己。

草色入帘青 发表于 2009-3-22 23:01:00

    今晚秘书长、秋江小同学、侠客行学长都在发感慨啊！！！不得了！

秋江发表于 2009-3-22 22:44:00

把手松开，你拥有的是一切 　
    人们在面对金钱、权力、还有爱情的时候，总是希望可以长久地拥有它们，将它们牢牢地握在手心，越握越紧，仿佛你的确拥有了许多呵！可是事实上或许你用手抓住的仅仅是一把细沙，当你急切的越握越紧的时候，其实你却是在一点点的失去它们，那从指缝里不断有细沙在渗出、落下，最后，只有一小部分会留在手中，也许你什么也抓不住了。最后也仅仅是像《渔夫与金鱼》里的那个贪心的老太婆一样，只能拥有那最初的那只破木盆。
 
   懂得失去才能体会拥有时的珍贵，懂得放手才能抓住更多的东西，也才能有空间去放置你的梦想。“把手松开，你拥有的是一切！”
 
   人生就像是在爬山，近的爬完了，而远山还在呼唤，总以为山那头的风景会比眼前看到的景色更美丽，于是你努力的翻越了那座山头，当你以胜利者的姿态俯视大好河山之即，你这才发现其实身后那山头的风景和山这边的是一样美丽呵！而远处依然有突兀的山峦起伏跌宕，可你还是会继续走下去，不是么？难道你未曾想过山的尽头是荒漠么？到那时你将如何来面对呢？
 
   懂得放弃也是一门生活的艺术，更是人生的哲理。你能从中体会出其中的含义和精髓所在么！“把手松开，你拥有的是一切！”
   当你执著于你的梦想，构建你的空中楼阁的时候，其实你已经拥有了很多东西啊！能够拥有那就请你珍惜，如果你已无力挽回的时候，那就请你松开手吧！彼一时的失落与无奈，并不意味着永久的失去，酒欲中的沉沦是为了步入新生的开始。其实仔细想来，你已经拥有了许多呵！其实最好的东西一直在你的身边！
 
   “把手松开，你拥有的是一切！”
  来源：转载未名作者

秋江发表于 2009-3-22 22:51:00

我可能也很有些伤感,所以也上了一些带有我心情的东西......

草色入帘青 发表于 2009-3-22 22:42:00

    我琢磨着，想要快乐的事多可能也难；但面对不一定快乐的事仍保持恬淡的态度倒是可能做到的。

秋江发表于 2009-3-23 19:50:00

青梅竹马，两小无猜
　　【成语】青梅竹马，两小无猜
　　【读音】qīng méi zhú mǎ ，liǎng xiǎo wú cāi
　　【解释】青梅，青色的梅子。竹马，把竹竿当马骑。猜：猜疑。指男女从小相识，一起玩耍，感情纯洁，亲密无间，没有猜疑。　
　　【出处】唐·李白《长干行》诗：“郎骑竹马来，绕床弄青梅。同居长干里，两小无嫌猜。”
　　【典故】唐代诗人李白在其诗作《长干行》中描写到，古代金陵城长干里街道住着两户人家，两家均有孩子，他们从小在一起玩耍，男孩骑着竹竿当马，欢快地跑出来。女孩见梅树上长着许多青梅就叫男孩去摘，男孩给她摘下许多。两人感情纯洁深厚，而且毫无猜疑。后来两个小孩长大结为夫妻。

wangpei 发表于 2009-3-23 20:29:00

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder">以下是引用秋江在2009-3-23 19:50:00的发言：  
青梅竹马，两小无猜
　　【成语】青梅竹马，两小无猜
　　【读音】qīng méi zhú mǎ ，liǎng xiǎo wú cāi
　　【解释】青梅，青色的梅子。竹马，把竹竿当马骑。猜：猜疑。指男女从小相识，一起玩耍，感情纯洁，亲密无间，没有猜疑。　
　　【出处】唐·李白《长干行》诗：“郎骑竹马来，绕床弄青梅。同居长干里，两小无嫌猜。”
　　【典故】唐代诗人李白在其诗作《长干行》中描写到，古代金陵城长干里街道住着两户人家，两家均有孩子，他们从小在一起玩耍，男孩骑着竹竿当马，欢快地跑出来。女孩见梅树上长着许多青梅就叫男孩去摘，男孩给她摘下许多。两人感情纯洁深厚，而且毫无猜疑。后来两个小孩长大结为夫妻。</div>
 
哎，杨导。你到底和谁“青梅竹马”？！

秋江发表于 2009-3-23 20:36:00

青梅竹马两小无猜

记得当时年 
     小小桥初相识      红了秀颜  
 　 绿了芳草

秋江发表于 2009-3-23 20:41:00

记得当时年纪    小小桥初相识    红了秀颜    绿了芳草 <img src="http://img.obj.cc/forum/dvbbs/2009-3/200932320405942756.jpg" border="0" onclick="zoom(this)" onload="if(this.width>document.body.clientWidth*0.5) {this.resized=true;this.width=document.body.clientWidth*0.5;this.style.cursor='pointer';} else {this.onclick=null}" alt="" />

wangpei 发表于 2009-3-23 09:35:00

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder">以下是引用冼溪在2009-3-22 14:25:00的发言： 小秋江说的很是在理，凡人都应该这样做。道理大家都明白，可做起来就不那么容易了。需要毅力，需要持之以恒，还要根据每个人的具体情况来制定不同的方法。总之，真正做到就不容易了。 </div>
借蒋委员长的一句话“以不变，应万变”
 
就是有时明知其道，自己还变。
 
“沙子”讲话：“人非圣贤”
 
我们也只能是朝着理想的境界，不懈的努力。

兰台秘笈 发表于 2009-3-23 22:07:00

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder">以下是引用冼溪在2009-3-23 21:02:00的发言： 普通的朋友与真正的朋友 　　一个普通的朋友从未看过你哭泣。一个真正的朋友有双肩让你的泪水湿尽。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友不知道你父母的姓氏。一个真正的朋友有他们的电话在通讯簿上。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友会带瓶葡萄酒参加你的派对。一个真正的朋友会早点来帮你准备,为了帮你打扫而晚点走。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友讨厌你在他睡了后打来。一个真正的朋友会问为什么现在才打来。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友找你谈论你的困扰。一个真正的朋友找你解决你的困扰。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友对你的罗曼史感到好奇。一个真正的朋友可以威胁你说出来。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友在拜访时，像一个客人一样。一个真正的朋友会打开冰箱自己拿东西 　　 　　 　　 　　一个普通的朋友在吵架后就认为友谊已经结束。一个真正的朋友明白当你们还没打过架就不叫真正的友谊。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友期望你永远在他身边陪他。一个真正的朋友期望他能永远陪在你身旁！ 　　 </div>
不错，愿大家都拥有真心的朋友！

侠客行 发表于 2009-3-23 22:19:00

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder">以下是引用冼溪在2009-3-23 21:02:00的发言： 普通的朋友与真正的朋友 　　一个普通的朋友从未看过你哭泣。一个真正的朋友有双肩让你的泪水湿尽。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友不知道你父母的姓氏。一个真正的朋友有他们的电话在通讯簿上。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友会带瓶葡萄酒参加你的派对。一个真正的朋友会早点来帮你准备,为了帮你打扫而晚点走。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友讨厌你在他睡了后打来。一个真正的朋友会问为什么现在才打来。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友找你谈论你的困扰。一个真正的朋友找你解决你的困扰。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友对你的罗曼史感到好奇。一个真正的朋友可以威胁你说出来。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友在拜访时，像一个客人一样。一个真正的朋友会打开冰箱自己拿东西 　　 　　 　　 　　一个普通的朋友在吵架后就认为友谊已经结束。一个真正的朋友明白当你们还没打过架就不叫真正的友谊。 　　 　　一个普通的朋友期望你永远在他身边陪他。一个真正的朋友期望他能永远陪在你身旁！　　 </div>
 哈哈。。。，
 一个真正的朋友有双肩让你的泪水湿尽。—— 一个真正的朋友是你的面纸巾。
 一个真正的朋友有他们的电话在通讯簿上。—— 一个真正的朋友是你的记事本。
一个真正的朋友会早点来帮你准备,为了帮你打扫而晚点走。—— 一个真正的朋友是你的钟点工。

秋江发表于 2009-3-23 20:42:00

你也不是那么男子汉 　　那些随落花飘飞而下的虫虫     　是你躲在我身后的理由 <img src="http://img.obj.cc/forum/dvbbs/2009-3/200932320421252831.jpg" border="0" onclick="zoom(this)" onload="if(this.width>document.body.clientWidth*0.5) {this.resized=true;this.width=document.body.clientWidth*0.5;this.style.cursor='pointer';} else {this.onclick=null}" alt="" />

秋江发表于 2009-3-23 20:51:00

雪落无声 　听到你打破寂静的脚步声    人呢？    是我听错了么？ 　明明约好了    一起去看找不到东西吃的鱼鱼 <img src="http://img.obj.cc/forum/dvbbs/2009-3/200932320504141500.jpg" border="0" onclick="zoom(this)" onload="if(this.width>document.body.clientWidth*0.5) {this.resized=true;this.width=document.body.clientWidth*0.5;this.style.cursor='pointer';} else {this.onclick=null}" alt="" />

秋江发表于 2009-3-23 20:53:00

你那样的宠爱   连小小的我都感觉得到  
  黄昏回家   问你为何一瘸一瘸
　但笑不语   其实，我早睡醒了   只是想赖在你怀里    偷偷的坏 <img src="http://img.obj.cc/forum/dvbbs/2009-3/200932320531311845.jpg" border="0" onclick="zoom(this)" onload="if(this.width>document.body.clientWidth*0.5) {this.resized=true;this.width=document.body.clientWidth*0.5;this.style.cursor='pointer';} else {this.onclick=null}" alt="" />

秋江发表于 2009-3-23 20:56:00

没有你陪的午后 　好无聊啊~ 　已经习惯了你的存在 　我们这样好 　就象村头伯伯说的 　两小无猜么？ <img src="http://img.obj.cc/forum/dvbbs/2009-3/20093232056897432.jpg" border="0" onclick="zoom(this)" onload="if(this.width>document.body.clientWidth*0.5) {this.resized=true;this.width=document.body.clientWidth*0.5;this.style.cursor='pointer';} else {this.onclick=null}" alt="" />

秋江发表于 2009-3-23 20:58:00

花儿笑 　狗狗叫 　男生爱女生 　羞羞羞！    我是大女孩了哎~ <img src="http://img.obj.cc/forum/dvbbs/2009-3/200932320573835231.jpg" border="0" onclick="zoom(this)" onload="if(this.width>document.body.clientWidth*0.5) {this.resized=true;this.width=document.body.clientWidth*0.5;this.style.cursor='pointer';} else {this.onclick=null}" alt="" />

秋江发表于 2009-3-23 21:00:00

记忆停在两小无猜，美丽的爱 <img src="http://img.obj.cc/forum/dvbbs/2009-3/200932320595241001.jpg" border="0" onclick="zoom(this)" onload="if(this.width>document.body.clientWidth*0.5) {this.resized=true;this.width=document.body.clientWidth*0.5;this.style.cursor='pointer';} else {this.onclick=null}" alt="" />

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