我不知道我为什么给人那么多误会。
<p>今天有人说我思想90后的？<br/>似乎太可笑了。<br/>我思想70后的比较靠谱。<br/>我跟85后的都有代沟，虽然能容纳他们的思想但也不理解，自己也不会去做。<br/><br/>我很伤心，我混了半年的地方和朋友，如此真诚对待的某些朋友，竟然这么误会我。如此之深</p><p>别人说我也就算了，我根本不求别人了解我太多。可惜说我的是我觉得了解我多一半事情的最好的好朋友，最好的，几乎是老北京网唯一的最了解我的好朋友。真的很伤心。</p><p>我不知道到底为什么会出这样的错误。本以为是自己最好的朋友，最真诚的去对待，原来适得其反。<br/><br/><br/>算了吧，也许又要开始没有人陪我吃喝玩乐的生活了。<br/>无所谓了<br/><br/>也许是自己比较能装比吧，尤其在一般的朋友面前，比较能装疯卖傻，用疯来掩饰自己内心的，不开心，不安，和没有依靠感，还有曾经因为真诚待人，而被人下套后伤的心。释放日常的紧张，让自己，让周围的人开心，周围的人开心了，我也就开心了。</p><p>我不想跟太多人说我的事情，因为我不想让太多人过于了解我，因为没有谁能耐心听，也没有谁能理解。而且以前曾经出现过由于让别人了解我，并且了解的还很片面的时候，有一些不好的结果。我不想那样了</p><p>与其那样，不如一点不了解。看表面就好了，疯疯癫癫的，大家都开开心心的，就好了。</p><p>吃喝玩乐的朋友间，应该开开心心的才好。疯点儿都不怕什么。又不是同事，干嘛那么谨慎？干嘛那么虚伪。干嘛那么装比？<br/><br/>在同事面前还比较正常，非常理智，努力去谨慎小心的完成每件事情。<br/><br/>在最好最好的好朋友面前，最为真实，交心，实话，坦荡，哭泣，困惑，解惑，开心，微笑，开朗。<br/><br/>这样的好朋友，不多，掰着手指头也数不出5个。<br/><br/>我知道自己经历了太多的事情，比很多人少，但也比很多人多。<br/>我不求所有人都能理解我。<br/>当别人不理解的时候，我能解释就解释了<br/>解释不清楚的，我能抗就扛，<br/>抗不了的，我也只能离开了。<br/><br/>我不想头疼。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。<wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wbr><wbr></wb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14:21:19编辑过] 这种世道做一个正直善良的人不容易 不用头痛，谁让你头痛你就让他全身痛。 <p><a href="http://cache.tianya.cn/techforum/content/96/555788.shtml">http://cache.tianya.cn/techforum/content/96/555788.shtml</a></p><p></p><p>这个贴太好了</p> <p><img src="http://img.obj.cc/forum/dvbbs/2008-1/20081231359433276.gif" border="0" onclick="zoom(this)" onload="if(this.width>document.body.clientWidth*0.5) {this.resized=true;this.width=document.body.clientWidth*0.5;this.style.cursor='pointer';} else {this.onclick=null}" alt="" /></p><p><br/> </p> 都督同志这是咋的了？ <font size="4">做“好朋友”其实是很不容易的，因为要彼此承担很多。酒肉朋友一般是快乐的时候聚，而好朋友则往往是失意的时候聚，所以快乐而正常的时候，甚至觉得和好友在一起不如和酒友开心。可是好友毕竟是好友，多少年都不变，即使长时间不联系，也能雪中送炭，而且毫无杂念。所以好友不求多，但求长久。</font> <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>高末儿</i>在2008-1-23 17:36:20的发言：</b><br/><font size="4">做“好朋友”其实是很不容易的，因为要彼此承担很多。酒肉朋友一般是快乐的时候聚，而好朋友则往往是失意的时候聚，所以快乐而正常的时候，甚至觉得和好友在一起不如和酒友开心。可是好友毕竟是好友，多少年都不变，即使长时间不联系，也能雪中送炭，而且毫无杂念。所以好友不求多，但求长久。</font></div><p>您说得很在理！</p> <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>草根人生</i>在2008-1-24 8:24:05的发言：</b><br/><font size="5">每个人在世界上,都要同时扮演不同角色:父母,兄弟,姐妹,同事,朋友等.不同的角色有不同的要求,如果你定位错误,或对别人定位错误,你收获的将不仅是失望,而且还有郁闷和痛苦.但是如果你降格以求,你将收获大量的惊喜.比如对朋友,你以同事的标准要求他,他对你的回报肯定令你满意,对同事,你以萍聚的标准要求他,你收获的喜悦将更多.</font></div><p>人际关系，累啊，头疼阿。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。</p><p>麻烦阿！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！</p><p></p> <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>OMEGAMAN</i>在2008-1-24 1:56:08的发言：</b><br/><p>俺80年人 和82以下的人就有代沟尤其 84 85的~~</p><p></p><p>小孩子啊~~没办法聊不到一块去</p></div><p>出生年月只是一方面，决定性的还是家庭环境，学校环境的影响。</p><p>见多了70年代的不懂事儿的人</p><p>见多了85后也很懂事的人。</p><p>也许只是大多数人可以按年代划分</p><p>但有很多人并不属于这个范畴。</p><p>就好象都说某某地方人都是坏人</p><p>可是也可以出好人的。</p><p>肯定有很多人不符合规律，所以不了解情况就瞎给别人下定义，挺。。。。。。。错误的。</p><p>要是了解了，再瞎下定义。那就是纯混蛋了。</p> <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>心灵之花</i>在2008-1-24 8:22:18的发言：</b><br/>嘟嘟：真不知您怎么称呼比较好？俺与您也就是看看您的栏目或文章，由于是隔代人，俺不好评说您和您的朋友之间的闲谈话语，但俺感觉就是朋友之间还是应当坦诚相待，真挚友爱，要真正了解彼此的感情、性格、爱好、乐趣，就是对人际关系中最最敏感的问题要有足够的认识，徒有虚名的友谊只能蒙骗自己单纯幼稚的心理，即使在俺结交的成百上千个朋友中，却有许多不能深交、不能成为真正的知心朋友，有些人只要别人对他好，而他不能对人家也等同的关爱，在他的哲学理念中只有自爱，没有互爱，根本不懂得人际之间要互相尊重，信口开河、口无遮拦、满嘴胡说，有时必然把自己的好朋友也得罪了，用言语来伤人是最可怕的，也是最恶毒的。无论俺的朋友怎样做，俺不会对他（她）有任何埋怨，也不会讽刺挖苦他们，这是做人、做朋友最基本的道德准则，如果不懂的这一条，就不能称之为朋友，也不可能成为朋友的朋友。当然，在网聊中，网友之间开些玩笑，也不见得都是存心与自己过不去，如果一时心里难以接受，可以换个方式跟朋友交换一下意见（比方发个短信什么的），不必大动肝火，把自己心里的别扭和委屈昭然于世，如果希望得到别人的同情和劝解也可以换个方式，到别的栏目里去聊聊（比方到俺的《我的朋友》栏目里），总之俺希望您想开一点儿，保持自己良好的心态，面对大千世界，毕竟俺对您的了解还是很有限，只是一点微不足道的建议罢了！祝快乐！</div><p></p><p>被蒙的时候过多了，我就是太二了，吃一堑长不了一智，总觉得都是好人。以为自己宽容真诚待别人，别人也能这么待我，一次次的被。。。。。。。</p><p>什么时候我能火眼金金，真什么都不在乎的时候。那我就修炼到家了！</p>
[此贴子已经被作者于2008-1-24 10:09:17编辑过] <p>算了，跑题了，没意思。</p><p></p><p>其实就因为一件事情。</p><p>不了解我的人，随便说我什么都无所谓，因为他们不了解。</p><p>但我伤心的是因为说我的人是，我认为，是全网站最了解我的人。太辜负我的信任了。我都白一把鼻涕一把眼泪的掏心窝子的交心了！！！</p><p>还是瞌睡虫说对。</p><p>跟谁的仇，跟谁算，让我伤心的，就让你伤身体。</p><p>某些人，你死定了，对你说过无数遍这句话了，一直也没有灵验。</p><p>我也得说话算数一次了。</p><p>老这么被你欺负，我也太软弱了！死定了！死定了！</p><p>另外，你答应请我一顿饭！我记着呢！跑不了！！！！！！！！！！！！！</p>
[此贴子已经被作者于2008-1-24 10:10:04编辑过] <p>嘟嘟是个好女孩！有些事情不要太较真，多做少说，做女人优雅一点！</p><p>严于律己，宽于对人！自己心里也舒服！</p><p>好了，心情好点，工作去吧！！</p> <p>恩，胡胡说到关键词了，要幽雅。幽雅是来自从容的，不管事情是怎样，都要争取做到从容依旧、万事不惊。对于善意的人和事，一定真诚相对；预见没有好结果的时候保持距离、宽容相待即可。对于恶意的人和事，报之以直，不必以德报怨；如果针对性比较强，可以让它自求多福。虫大人是粗人，嘟嘟可别学；我在巴掌能解决问题的时候从来不动脑。不过这次嘟嘟是不是有误会呀。</p> <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>瞌睡虫</i>在2008-1-24 11:37:44的发言：</b><br/><p>恩，胡胡说到关键词了，要幽雅。幽雅是来自从容的，不管事情是怎样，都要争取做到从容依旧、万事不惊。对于善意的人和事，一定真诚相对；预见没有好结果的时候保持距离、宽容相待即可。对于恶意的人和事，报之以直，不必以德报怨；如果针对性比较强，可以让它自求多福。虫大人是粗人，嘟嘟可别学；我在巴掌能解决问题的时候从来不动脑。不过这次嘟嘟是不是有误会呀。</p></div><p>你教我武功吧，就你练的那个！</p><p>我打遍天下贱男，骚扰我者－－－死！！！！！</p> <p>好，虫大人这个最擅长。小时侯鼻子眼睛的经常给别人赔。不过大家都说这不说明我霸道，只说明被收拾的人是混帐。我的老师说，我不喜欢的人肯定不是端正的人，哈哈。</p><p>虫大人这叫做王道。</p> <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>嘟啊嘟嘟</i>在2008-1-24 1:13:16的发言：</b><br/><p>对，说得没错</p><p>我就属于看似老不符合别人标准的，老被要求的那种人</p><p>没劲~</p><p>自己做不到还要求别人呢。</p></div><p>我比你还惨呢，我不也还健在呢吗</p> 有什么大不了的事嘛，都不用放在心上。 <p>我的一个朋友对我说了一句话：＂不能用要求自己的标准去要求别人．＂</p><p>想开点</p><p>鸟大了，得找能盛的下自己的地儿</p><p>就像妙心说的，走自己的路，别人爱怎么走就怎么走，他打车，骑车，开车，都跟咱没关系．</p> <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>瞌睡虫</i>在2008-1-23 23:48:36的发言：</b><br/>不能要求别人都对自己好，人际就是这样的，不可能每一对朋友都极亲密。挑选对自己来说可靠的做密友，其他做谈友，谈得好了升密友，密得不好降谈友，犯不上郁闷。</div><p>确实！</p> <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>油油</i>在2008-1-23 23:39:02的发言：</b><br/><p>呵呵，我早就看明白了</p><p>谁没苦恼和不开心啊</p><p>一个简单的例子</p><p>女人在自己的爱人面前最真实，而且也信任他，最简单的例子，很多女孩会把自己的书包交给男孩子提</p><p>但我不会，就算书包再重，我也是自己提，因为书包里有我最私密的东西和生活的保障，所以我不会交给其他人，任何人都不能给我安全感</p><p>这个世界上只有自己才会对自己好，其他的都是骗人的</p><br/></div><p></p>有道理 <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>瞌睡虫</i>在2008-1-23 23:48:36的发言：</b><br/>不能要求别人都对自己好，人际就是这样的，不可能每一对朋友都极亲密。挑选对自己来说可靠的做密友，其他做谈友，谈得好了升密友，密得不好降谈友，犯不上郁闷。</div><p>有道理</p> <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>高末儿</i>在2008-1-23 17:36:20的发言：</b><br/><font size="4">做“好朋友”其实是很不容易的，因为要彼此承担很多。酒肉朋友一般是快乐的时候聚，而好朋友则往往是失意的时候聚，所以快乐而正常的时候，甚至觉得和好友在一起不如和酒友开心。可是好友毕竟是好友，多少年都不变，即使长时间不联系，也能雪中送炭，而且毫无杂念。所以好友不求多，但求长久。</font></div><p>对</p> <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>油油</i>在2008-1-24 0:10:04的发言：</b><br/><p>我的一个朋友对我说了一句话：＂不能用要求自己的标准去要求别人．＂</p><p>想开点</p><p>鸟大了，得找能盛的下自己的地儿</p><p>就像妙心说的，走自己的路，别人爱怎么走就怎么走，他打车，骑车，开车，都跟咱没关系．</p></div><p>对，说得没错</p><p>我就属于看似老不符合别人标准的，老被要求的那种人</p><p>没劲~</p><p>自己做不到还要求别人呢。</p> 嘟嘟：真不知您怎么称呼比较好？俺与您也就是看看您的栏目或文章，由于是隔代人，俺不好评说您和您的朋友之间的闲谈话语，但俺感觉就是朋友之间还是应当坦诚相待，真挚友爱，要真正了解彼此的感情、性格、爱好、乐趣，就是对人际关系中最最敏感的问题要有足够的认识，徒有虚名的友谊只能蒙骗自己单纯幼稚的心理，即使在俺结交的成百上千个朋友中，却有许多不能深交、不能成为真正的知心朋友，有些人只要别人对他好，而他不能对人家也等同的关爱，在他的哲学理念中只有自爱，没有互爱，根本不懂得人际之间要互相尊重，信口开河、口无遮拦、满嘴胡说，有时必然把自己的好朋友也得罪了，用言语来伤人是最可怕的，也是最恶毒的。无论俺的朋友怎样做，俺不会对他（她）有任何埋怨，也不会讽刺挖苦他们，这是做人、做朋友最基本的道德准则，如果不懂的这一条，就不能称之为朋友，也不可能成为朋友的朋友。当然，在网聊中，网友之间开些玩笑，也不见得都是存心与自己过不去，如果一时心里难以接受，可以换个方式跟朋友交换一下意见（比方发个短信什么的），不必大动肝火，把自己心里的别扭和委屈昭然于世，如果希望得到别人的同情和劝解也可以换个方式，到别的栏目里去聊聊（比方到俺的《我的朋友》栏目里），总之俺希望您想开一点儿，保持自己良好的心态，面对大千世界，毕竟俺对您的了解还是很有限，只是一点微不足道的建议罢了！祝快乐！ <font size="5">每个人在世界上,都要同时扮演不同角色:父母,兄弟,姐妹,同事,朋友等.不同的角色有不同的要求,如果你定位错误,或对别人定位错误,你收获的将不仅是失望,而且还有郁闷和痛苦.但是如果你降格以求,你将收获大量的惊喜.比如对朋友,你以同事的标准要求他,他对你的回报肯定令你满意,对同事,你以萍聚的标准要求他,你收获的喜悦将更多.</font> <p>俺80年人 和82以下的人就有代沟尤其 84 85的~~</p><p></p><p>小孩子啊~~没办法聊不到一块去</p> <div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>老盘子</i>在2008-1-23 19:32:26的发言：</b><br/><p>您说得很在理！</p></div><p></p><p>你还懂这道理？？？？？真不可思议!!!</p><p>要不就是揣着明白装糊涂！</p><p>要不就是诚心气死人不偿命！</p><p>反正以后你记住了，甭跟我来那套！别我最烦什么，你就来什么！一而再再而三的！</p><p>多少次了！！！！</p><p>你自己数数！！！</p><p>我对你，够可以了！</p><p>别觉得我好欺负就可以无休止的欺负下去！</p><p>忍，也看对什么人！</p><p></p>
[此贴子已经被作者于2008-1-23 23:34:48编辑过] 不能要求别人都对自己好，人际就是这样的，不可能每一对朋友都极亲密。挑选对自己来说可靠的做密友，其他做谈友，谈得好了升密友，密得不好降谈友，犯不上郁闷。 <p>呵呵，我早就看明白了</p><p>谁没苦恼和不开心啊</p><p>一个简单的例子</p><p>女人在自己的爱人面前最真实，而且也信任他，最简单的例子，很多女孩会把自己的书包交给男孩子提</p><p>但我不会，就算书包再重，我也是自己提，因为书包里有我最私密的东西和生活的保障，所以我不会交给其他人，任何人都不能给我安全感</p><p>这个世界上只有自己才会对自己好，其他的都是骗人的</p>
[此贴子已经被作者于2008-1-23 23:41:43编辑过]
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